How to capture the heart of Gao Fushuai

1. Even if you have enough time, you can call him occasionally and ask him to help buy breakfast at the convenience store downstairs of the office - "You can help me see what I want to buy, you know. "What do I like to eat?" must be added.

2. When he tells you a joke, laugh as if he is about to fall over and then tap his shoulder or arm lightly with your hand. Note that it must be a quick slap - if it is a dirty joke, pretend to be angry and "pretend" to hit him with any object on the desk. Don't be amused by dirty jokes, which will make him think he has an opportunity to take advantage of it and ruin your ambiguous relationship

3. For his invitation, roughly reject it once every three times to express regret, but remember to refuse it every two Take the initiative to ask him out to meet you no more than once a week. The location can be any restaurant or entertainment venue except food stalls. You will pay the bill - be careful to avoid the two of you walking aimlessly on the road or sitting on the street. Chatting on a bench in the park because you are flirting, not to lure him into his wildest dreams and confess his love to you.

4. When you receive a text message from him asking you if you miss him, just answer "guess". Of course he will immediately say "I guess you do" or something like that, so you reply "you guess again". Guess" - If he continues to ask this question, then it is obvious that the pig-headed man is not suitable for you to play with, so quickly change the target.

5. Use a very grand reason to let the other person hold your hand. For example, when climbing a mountain together, you can hold out your slender hand while panting and say, "I can't walk anymore, please." Please give me a hand." Then let him lead you up the mountain. When you stop climbing, take your little hand out immediately - except in similar situations, never let him touch you.

6. After making an appointment to meet him, he deliberately did not bring his handbag. After meeting him, he stuffed his wallet, cell phone, keys, tissues, etc. into his jacket pocket - this is more suitable in winter, but try to avoid it in summer.

7. During company group dinners, sit at the same table with him at the dinner table, but don’t take the initiative to sit next to him. If he generously invites you to sit next to him, then accept it generously; Spend half of the time with your female colleague during the activity, and allocate the remaining time to him as appropriate.

8. If you like to eat snacks in the office, throw a dollar or two to him when he is in a particularly good or bad mood, and he will be very happy to eat. You don’t need to do it at ordinary times.

9. Don’t comment on his clothes, but let him know which shirt, tie, and pair of leather shoes you like best. In addition, you must not be stupid enough to knit a scarf for him. This is a very bad incident and the first prohibited behavior for female ambiguous players!

10. If you are on a business trip or traveling to another city for a short stay, be sure to send him a text message between 10 and 12 o'clock the next night, implicitly expressing your lonely mood (no It can also be said that there is), and then turn off the phone. Even if you receive the ambiguous reply from the other party the night before the next morning, you must turn a blind eye.

11. In addition to him, you also need at least two to three male friends. You must not only show that you can chat with other male friends in front of him, but also make him feel that his status is high. Unlike other men - this is more difficult to do. The key is scale and frequency. Suppose the time you spend on him is 1, then the total time spent on everyone else should not exceed 1 is the upper line, and no less than 1/2 is the bottom line.

12. When you go to the bar, ask him to order a drink for you, but make it clear that you don’t drink hard liquor or freshly mixed wine. When drinking, only take the initiative to raise the glass with the first drink, and remain passive after that. If he invites you to dance, accept the invitation generously, and be okay with inadvertent body contact during the dance, but it is absolutely forbidden to dance close to each other.

13. Let him go shopping with you to buy clothes, take the initiative to ask for his opinion, try it on for him whether he likes it or not, and then decide whether to buy it or not according to your mood.

When paying the bill, if there are men's accessories (such as socks) next to the cashier, you can casually take a pair to look at, then ask the waiter to check out with you, and tell him that this is a reward for him - be sure to buy clothes yourself Paying the bill, you are playing with the ambiguity, not making fun of others. The latter is an act that I seriously despise.

14. Although it is absolutely forbidden for him to touch your body, you can take the initiative to touch his body at a lower frequency. For example, if he says he feels uncomfortable, you can touch him naturally. Forehead, and then touch your own; or when we are waiting for the subway together, lean on his shoulder and say, "I'm exhausted, stand up straight and let me lean on you for a while."

15. If you have a conflict with your boyfriend, you will naturally be the first to talk to your ambiguous partner. However, remember: when you speak, you should make it appear that you are confused about the future of you and your boyfriend, and you should not let him feel that you are afraid of losing your boyfriend - therefore, how to control your emotions is particularly important here.

16. Finally, I would like to advise all girls who are planning to play or are currently playing with ambiguity: Ambiguity is not that easy to play with. When you enjoy everything your ambiguous partner does for you without having to assume any obligations for your uncertain relationship, I only think of one sentence, "Sooner or later, you will pay back if you go out to fool around"!