Should I break up with my boyfriend if I find ambiguous text messages between him and another girl?

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My ex has been in a relationship for 4 years and is about to get married. I found out that he has another WeChat ID, which is full of ambiguous chats with other women. He even claims that he loves me. , just playing with others. The funny thing is that I believed him, got back together, and broke up again, for the same reason. Maybe most people around you will say, "All men are like this, there is no cat that doesn't cheat, and as long as his heart is with you, it doesn't matter if he cheats on you once in a while." These are all bullshit. Try it on yourself.

I advise you that this is an essential issue, not a minor issue. My dear, love is exclusive. If he loves you wholeheartedly, why would he have an affair with other people? If you can do it in a relationship, why can't he? This is a character issue. This is what the so-called "gentleman should be cautious about being alone" means. When he is alone, if he gets bored and just relies on chatting with the opposite sex to pass the time, it can only mean two things. First, he must not be active in work and very idle.

Second, he is boring. My boyfriend likes to be alone very much. When he is alone, he will think about some things or read some books that enrich himself. Forgiveness in every possible way is a breeding ground for wild dogs. Leave him as soon as possible. You deserve all the good things. Yesterday, my friend of the opposite sex of more than 10 years told me that he and his girlfriend have been together for 6 years, and they feel that they are no longer fresh and want to find someone to have fun with outside. I was stunned and refreshed my understanding of him.

Of course he told me this so that I could persuade him, but I really didn’t want to say anything, because once he had this idea, it would be difficult to get rid of it. That night, I asked my boyfriend if most men would have this kind of thinking. He definitely told me that no, if you don't like it, just break up. Why occupy both sides? You want long-lasting and pure love, but you also want to be stimulated and fresh all the time. It's so selfish!