Female: Why do I always look forward to his text messages or phone calls?

In the years of pursuing love, we finally discovered that love is not a matter of two or three people, but a matter of one person. Love is its own perfection. When you understand love, you also understand life.

A woman takes the initiative, are you tempted by a man? Faced with this problem, men will say: "Of course, as long as I like her too." In fact, the problem lies in this and I like her too. Men and women are two different animals. Men need to conquer women, but women need a sense of security. When a man finds a target that suits him, he will definitely take action first, but if he is delayed, then the attractiveness of the target is questionable in the first place.

I remember someone said that whoever makes the first move when it comes to love will lose everything. Our life experience determines that it is common sense for a man to show love to a woman. Once he violates it, trouble will ensue. The ultimate goal of a woman loving a man is to gain a sense of security. If she takes the initiative to express love, she will lack confidence in herself, so a woman's active love often ends in failure.

A wise woman should know that breaking old ideas requires a price, which she may not be able to bear. A wise woman thinks of ways to get the other person to talk, giving a person three chances, asking him to have a meal, watch a movie, and attend a gathering of friends. If he still doesn't respond, give up. Giving someone three chances is already a luxury. The most stupid person is to love someone who doesn't love himself.

The difference between wisdom and stupidity is sometimes just because a woman tells that man: I love you! And the other woman didn't tell the man: I love you! Although the results may be the same, the psychological feelings are completely different. A wise woman will choose to make herself happy, just like a line in a movie says, "The best way to avoid being rejected by others is to reject others first."

In fact, men are more conscious than women when it comes to love issues, and they will put emotional issues in a reasonable position; while women can easily regard emotions as the whole of life. When the love express breaks down and two people have to break up, it is often the woman who is irrational.

Anyone will have some signs before making a decision. If your boyfriend starts to deliberately hurt you with some words, starts to have no patience to listen to your phone calls, and the reasons he explains are obviously perfunctory. traces. Then, a wise woman should trust her own intuition and speak first, so that she can turn her passivity into initiative. Don't worry that men will be embarrassed to admit it, as long as you don't make your actions too tragic. When what you say hits his mind exactly, he will usually be speechless.

Although women often say who they dumped, this may just be a wish that she has buried in her heart for a long time. The reality is that if there is no suitable new man, most of the time it will be the woman who uses her actions to force the man to speak. Therefore, many women will keep calling after a man proposes to break up. The more they call, the more they feel that the other party's indifference is unreasonable. A woman’s idea is: Even if we want to break up, I have to say it first.

There is a story on Sina at the end that says: When being loved becomes a habit, please leave your last pride to me. This is a wise choice. Many things cannot be changed by hard work. Instead of trying to restore the lost love, it is better to work hard to face reality.

Whether you have already made a decision in your heart but let others make the decision first, or you really did not expect the sudden change in love, things have come to this point. Walk beautifully, then you can't save a man's heart, but you can save your own dignity.

Zhang Xiaoxian said that from the moment a woman lives with a man, she should leave a suitcase in her hand to let him know that she can leave in style at any time. A woman holds a suitcase on her arm and walks with her head held high without looking back. This lonely scene is the last dignity of a woman.