Cao Qian, an international student in China, refused to go home after 20 years abroad. What happened to her?

Lead: I believe many people want to change their destiny by learning and using knowledge. However, due to some family problems, many people choose to give up their studies and go out to work to subsidize their families. However, some families spend all their money on their daughters' schooling, but unexpectedly try their best to support their daughters' schooling. As a result, their daughter hasn't been home for 20 years, and even lost contact for 15 years.

First, I want to study abroad when I am admitted to a university.

At the beginning of the story, the protagonist is a Liaoning girl named Cao Qian. She grew up in a difficult family and her parents are ordinary people. But they have a daughter, Cao Qian, who studied very hard since she was a child and was encouraged to enter a good university. Therefore, even if the family is bitter, she cherishes her textbooks. Finally, she was admitted to Liaoning Normal University, and was qualified to study abroad at her own expense when she was a sophomore. In fact, it is good for wealthy families to go abroad.

Twenty or seventy thousand tuition fees

But, after all, she is her own daughter. Faced with their daughter's willingness to study abroad, the old couple can only agree to find ways to raise tuition and living expenses for their daughter. Because my daughter is studying abroad to borrow money, relatives are willing to help, because they know what money can be borrowed best, that is, when someone at home is eager to learn and lacks money.

Therefore, the old couple collected 70,000 yuan for their daughter to study abroad. It was very gratifying to see that her daughter could study abroad, but she also began to feel distressed. After all, their living expenses are only 100 yuan, so it is difficult to see her again in the short term, but fortunately, with the correspondence, they can know that she is not there.

Third, a heavy sentence broke the connection.

However, I didn't expect that my daughter spent more and more time abroad and had less and less contact time. At first, she would take the initiative to contact her family, but after that, she rarely contacted her family except for asking for money. Before and after her daughter went abroad, she also spent hundreds of thousands on this rural couple. Although it wasn't much, they really tried their best, but what I didn't expect was that after they had a conflict with their daughter on the phone in 2003 (because her daughter didn't contact her family for a long time, her father was very angry and said terrible things), that is, from then on, her daughter cut off contact with her family directly, 17 years, and she didn't go home for more than 20 years.

Conclusion: She may be in the initial stage of her career, but her parents did have cancer before and after, so it is difficult to see her in her last days. Although some consulate staff tried to contact Cao Qian, she was helpless. Even in 2005, she didn't want to contact her family. If it is really because of her father's bad words ("I thought you were dead, so I didn't call home for so long." I think it's cruel to lose contact with you for so many years.