What should I do if Xiao San pesters me to death (Xiao San won't let me go)

Examples of listening to friends talk.

My husband said he would come back, but when he met San Xiao, he was a stalker. What should I do?

Zhu answered

1.

First of all, your husband said he would return to China, which is a good thing. You must praise him, affirm him and welcome him.

At the same time, we must talk to him, what to talk about, and what aspects he wants to return to his family?

Second, he broke up with Xiao San, or what should he consider? We have to talk about this. Because not talking about it will become an unreal difference.

Third, he broke up, and now he has any difficulties. It was his third wife who came to haunt him.

All right, let's start the analysis now. What's your husband like? What kind of person is San Xiao?

2.

According to your husband's personality characteristics, crisis-solving ability, the aggression of the third wife, her personality characteristics, their personal characteristics and yours, we must find out their weaknesses and strengths. When you find them, you can fight back purposefully.

3.

The next thing to do is husband-and-wife talks and tripartite talks.

Call the police if necessary.

In this case, we can really show San Xiao what happened.

Of course, there is still a lot of work to be done in the two talks.

For example, your husband and wife are discussing what your husband wants.

Your husband wants to return to his family, break up with mistress and have a meeting to talk about your understanding of marriage and extramarital affairs.

You should also talk about the contradiction between you two and how to solve it.

The tripartite talks must end. If you want to show up, you have to show up. Your husband said: I'll handle it myself, so leave it alone. This method will definitely not work.

Tripartite talks mean that everyone is together, because together you can understand what a mistress is, right?

This is a series of talks, and there are many things to do in these two talks.

4.

Finally, you know, you know, the third wife's entanglement is not only her own personality characteristics, but also her own psychological state, which has a lot to do with your husband and wife's attitude.

Especially it has a lot to do with your husband's attitude and coping style.

We want you to know, you want you to know what this person is like, and then Teacher Zhu can guide you to do a lot of follow-up work.

You know what we said, the management of extramarital affairs is a systematic problem, which cannot be solved in a few words.

I just told you these steps. You should sort them out first, and then deal with them in specific ways and cases. This is a rough outline.

This concludes today's analysis. Ladies and gentlemen, if you have emotional troubles, you can write privately. I will reply you with audio.

I don't know what to do if I am betrayed by my husband and run away from home. If you need help, please write to me privately and I will reply to you.