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What do you think of the movie "In fact, he doesn't like you that much"?
First of all, I'm glad to answer this question, and then I'll talk about my evaluation of this film.
From small to large, we grew up with all kinds of beautiful love stories. So unconsciously, I also acquiesced that I would meet a perfect love like a fairy tale. But I never think about it. One day he appears as the only thrill, will he fall in love with himself?
People are always good at deceiving themselves. Comfort yourself or seek comfort from others, you can always find various reasons to deceive yourself. I always thought I would be the exception. But dare not face up to the cruel reality. In this world, men are easy to find, but lovers who can accompany them for life are hard to find. Everyone is pursuing a better person. Although everyone spends their own money, it is really difficult to meet two people who appreciate each other. Many times, it is always just "the person I like doesn't like me, and the person who likes me doesn't like me".
When falling in love, women will show amazing imagination and optimism, take pains to find reasonable reasons for men's indissoluble amorous feelings, and then comfort themselves contentedly. But the fact is often the opposite, which is the sorrow of women. If you are in this state and watch this movie, then you will know that at this time, all you have to do is bravely say to yourself: He doesn't like me, and then leave cleanly.
There will be two results: first, your man is slow-heating, and only after you leave will he find that you are irreplaceable in his life. He will come back to you and try his best to win you back. If so, congratulations. Not only won your dream, but also won a legal seat on an equal footing with him; In another case, it is not so lucky. Your departure has provided him with a broader game world. So, briefly mourn the wasted feelings and let the past go with the wind ~ in this way, at least at the last moment, you are noble. From this perspective, pessimism is still good, and there may be surprises without loss. ...
As the movie said, we comforted ourselves from childhood, and boys bullied themselves because they liked us! Make excuses for your boyfriend's carelessness, inattention, or even breaking up. He is under too much pressure, and now he is focused on his career. Anyway, neither we nor the people around us can admit that we are unattractive. There is a man who doesn't care about himself. In fact, men are not as complicated as we thought. Their attitudes are all in their faces and in their words. He didn't call you because he didn't want to; He didn't ask you out, he just didn't want to. He doesn't want to eat with you, but he doesn't want to eat with you. When we fabricate charm to prevaricate people we don't like, we believe all kinds of bad excuses of men. He is very busy. He can't wait.
We have heard too many stories with twists and turns, and feel that things will develop in a good direction. However, one day we finally found that other people's stories are just special cases. We are ordinary people, and ordinary people have only ordinary luck. If a man prevaricates you, he prevaricates you. He doesn't like you, he just doesn't like you. There is no other reason. We have all been hurt by ambiguity. We thought he was trying to catch up with you, but we forgot that men are not as delicate as women. If he loves you, there will be no affair.
I like this movie, because although it taught me to see the true face of men, it didn't make me despair of love. Beth waited for seven years and finally got the ring. After countless dates, Gigi finally met someone who loved her. Now that I have no love, what does it matter? If you are single, you will enjoy being single; If you are in love, try to fall in love. Anyway, as long as you live happily and wonderfully.
This is the film of the previous year, even if it is taken out now, there is still aftertaste and thinking! My evaluation of this film is: the character design of this film is close to life, and everyone can feel that everyone has encountered it. The plot setting is close to the emotional problems that ordinary people often encounter, which is universal. Therefore, relatively speaking, it may be more worthy of female audience's aftertaste and thinking, especially the discussion on the advantages and disadvantages of the novice love segment in the scientific and technological era, which is almost the closest to today's life in all romantic comedies. Sometimes, some truths of life are more real and intimate in the mouth of "ordinary people". The summary fragments inserted between these chapters in the film are full of humor, satire and real complaints, which really makes the audience memorable. The film proves that only solutions tempered on the basis of communication and understanding are useful! The final definition of love in the original work expressed in this film is that love is a joint effort of both sides. No matter who presides over the festival and plays the leading role in it, it is not that important. It is important for both sides to enjoy it and fully enjoy the happiness brought by entertainment. This is the ultimate goal!
"He doesn't really like you that much" is a true story that teaches girls to find true love. It tells us the true meaning of getting a truly high-value partner: love yourself and be yourself.
[big gold teeth]
I have seen this film three times.
[red face]
I first saw it on 20 13. At that time, I was still a little girl who had never been in love and was full of longing for love. My expectation for love is the same as that of fairy Xia Zi for her lover: "My lover is a hero on earth. I know that one day he will appear in a striking manner, wearing golden armor and colorful auspicious clouds to marry me! "
Alex in the movie is like a hero in the world to Gigi, and finally he married Gigi on colorful auspicious clouds.
Love should be so beautiful.
After watching this movie for the first time, I was filled with emotion.
[heart]
The second time I saw it was at the end of my first love.
The first time I fell in love, I was full of fantasies about love. I thought this man would treat me well for a lifetime, but I didn't expect to turn off the fire halfway.
In the painful days of lovelorn, I heard the name of this movie again and reviewed it again.
In a state of disappointment with love, I changed my view of this film, and thought that the title of the film "He doesn't really like you that much" is the core idea of this film.
Boys don't like us as much as we think. All our views on boys are based on our own expectations and fantasies about them.
[Mind you]
He didn't reply to my message. He must be too busy to watch.
He bullied me because he liked me and wanted to get my attention.
He must like me. He won't call me. He must have lost your number.
[not looking]
But in fact, this is a modern fairy tale written for young girls.
The name of the movie is the truth of love in modern society: he doesn't really like you that much.
[not looking]
Even if Alex finally fell in love with Gigi, it was just a beautiful story written by the screenwriter to make the story turn.
In real life, it is very rare for a playboy like Alex to fall in love with a girl with an ordinary appearance, an ordinary figure and an ordinary personality-it is difficult for us ordinary girls to find an ordinary boy to love us.
[skeleton]
I watched this movie for the third time, and I think I really understand the core idea of this movie.
This film wants to share with us an attitude towards life: you should love yourself and be yourself, and naturally someone will love you.
Look inward in everything, not outward. You can give yourself the love you want. When you love yourself, the right person will be attracted by your inner charm and love you.
[Mind you]
Gigi was a sister looking for love from the beginning of the film. She always treats her feelings wrongly. She always thought that the other party would like her, but in fact, the other party really didn't like her.
Even though she is frustrated frequently, she still loves herself, she still does what she wants to do, and she still believes that she can meet true love, just as she said when Alex refused: "I have done a lot of stupid things, but I know very well that I am closer to true love than you."
[Mind you]
I think so, because I, like Gigi, experienced failure and had a period of self-doubt, and finally decided to be myself after I grew up.
Now, I have a boyfriend who still loves me when I am still myself.
"He doesn't really like you that much" tells a series of emotional entanglements between several city girl and their lovers, thus presenting the problems people encounter in love.
GiGi is a girl full of fantasies about love. She is full of enthusiasm for men, always sincere, eager for each other's response, but frustrated in dating again and again.
Her best friends Beth and Janine keep encouraging GiGi to cheer up emotionally, but each has regrets about love.
Beth and Neil are boyfriend and girlfriend. They have lived together for seven years. Beth has always been insecure and wants to get married to protect their relationship. But Neil has a completely different idea. He never expressed his intention to get married. Beth has been waiting for the wedding ring she has been looking forward to day after day.
Jenny and Ben are married, but their lives are not happy. Jenny's sensitivity made her marriage with Ben deadlocked, and Ben's affair with singer Anna made their marriage worse.
Anna is a singer. While refusing Connor's kindness, she eagerly expects Ben to leave Jenny, but can Ben really leave Jenny and come to her side? On the other hand, Anna's good friend Mary met Connor face to face in the morning.
Several girls stumbled in the city with the dream of love, but Gigi, who had never met true love at this time, heard the words that broke the hearts of all women in the mouth of Alex, the bar owner. "He just doesn't like you that much!" . Actually, he doesn't like you that much.
The film was not very successful, and there were many curses. Many people think that this is not a good movie at all. But let's not talk about these negative comments today, just say what I have profound knowledge.
There are many scenes of different people at the beginning of the film, all of which have the same characteristics. They are frustrated in love and then comforted by people around them.
What impressed me the most was the dialogue in which the little girl who was pushed down by the boy cried in front of her mother. Mother told her, "honey, do you know why that boy did that and said that about you?" Because he likes you. "
Since childhood, we have been instilled with such chicken soup and tried our best to find out why we were left out and hurt.
So, GiGi was perfunctory by those men. When she stayed in front of the phone all day and couldn't wait for the call, her friend comforted her that the other party might be too busy and lost the card with the phone number, and even told her the reason for the accident.
Beth and her boyfriend have been together for seven years, and they don't want to get married. She told her friends about her anxiety. The comfort of friends is to find 10 thousand reasons for not getting married for boyfriends.
When encountering problems, many people choose to avoid them instead of facing them head-on. Many people make excuses for people who don't come to you voluntarily, don't want to get married and don't want to sleep with you. In fact, after all, there is only one reason. Actually, he doesn't like you that much.
If he never takes the initiative and is always passive and reserved, many people often think:
Maybe he didn't want to ruin our friendship.
"Maybe he is shy." "Maybe he feels inferior."
"Maybe he just doesn't know how to contact me." ...
However, some people say that in the whole process of human history, no man will ruin "friendship" in order to get close to you, and it is impossible to be too scared to chase you because of shyness and inferiority. His only fear is that he is so indifferent to you.
He won't know how to contact you, such as cell phone, email, IM, SNS, twitter…… ................................................................................................................................................ Some people may argue that it is no longer the Stone Age, and girls should take the initiative to pursue the person they like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him-because he will take the initiative to send it to your door.
So when you meet someone who refuses to take the initiative, the person who doesn't take the initiative to call you, ask you out, propose marriage and so on. Don't always listen to his reasons and don't imagine all kinds of reasons for him in your mind. The only possible reason is that he doesn't really like you that much.
The final ending of the film is still very warm. Alex understands his ideas and is honest with Gigi. They are very happy together.
Neil proposed to Beth and they had a grand wedding. Janine chose to give up her marriage in name only and let herself move forward better.
Anna broke off her relationship with Connor and started her own life. One morning, Mary and Connor met unexpectedly. ...
This is what this movie tells us. There is sincerity in this world, but it is extremely rare and precious. If you can't see your sincerity, it's that you don't have enough feelings for each other. Actually, the other person doesn't like you that much.
A person who really likes you will break all the rules for you, and you will be his exception.
Finally, I recommend you to see this movie. Although there are many things that can be criticized in this film, from the perspective of women, there are also many things that can attract our attention.
"He doesn't really like you that much" debunks many cliches and tells girls not to accept wrong love letters. For example, boys who bully you don't love you, boys who don't actively pursue active confession don't love you, and so on. As a love guide, this movie tells us:
First, everyone who is loved has a restless heart. In the film, only the characters who accept each other's love more and enjoy the feeling of being loved more have a restless heart. Ben, who just got married and hasn't finished decorating his new house, Anna, a sexy and charming female singer, and Alex before the prodigal son returns.
Second, please believe that the psychology you really like will be shown in action. See Alex's guidance to Gigi and Alex's pursuit of Gigi after he is really tempted.
Love will always exist, whether you love others or yourself, please keep warm. Love will also be suitable and unsuitable. Some people walk around and finally find the right person to fall in love. For example, Gigi, who was lovelorn all the way, met Alex, and Conor, who had been a spare tire for Anna for a long time, met Mary. Love will be long enough and reliable enough, just like Neil and Beth. Knowing love may sometimes require learning to love yourself first, just like Janine.
In love, about rejection, about breaking up, about betrayal, maybe the reasons and behaviors are different, but the result is the same. True mutual love is the ultimate expression of love.
I am a movie station of @ Miseifei, and I am a creator in the field of film and television who is engaged in the management of cinema lines. Now I am mainly engaged in film review videos. It's my pleasure to answer your question.
There is a love healing movie,
He just doesn't like you that much,
He doesn't really like you that much.
Some people are often confused,
Ta, why didn't you reply to my message?
Why am I angry that Ta doesn't care at all?
Why are we sitting together,
Ta has been bowing his head to play games?
All the puzzles in life
Just because "he doesn't really like you that much"
1. The protagonist is a girl named Kiki. She always feels that others are interested in her, especially before the relationship between men and women is determined. After the first date, the two sides exchanged phone numbers. She has been waiting for the second date, but she has never waited for the news. She summoned up the courage to call, but the other party didn't answer.
In real life, many girls have had similar experiences, thinking that a boy likes himself and will always wait for his news and phone calls.
If he didn't keep his promise to you, don't make excuses for him, "He was really busy, so he forgot" ... he was very busy. Who is not busy in real life? If you really like someone, why don't you have time to send messages? If I really like you, I won't forget. If you forget, it means he doesn't care about your disappointment. A boy will never say "busy" to what he wants.
If he falls in love with someone else, don't explain for him: "There are many better people chasing him around him." If a boy really likes you, he can't have anyone else in his eyes. If he likes you, he will tell you everything at once. He won't let you guess, because he doesn't want you to lose and leave him.
If he betrays his feelings, don't think for him: "He drank too much, it was just an accident." Betrayal can't happen accidentally. If he doesn't even have an explanation and apology, please translate it into "I just want to spend time with you" and "I don't really like you at all"
2. In the picture books of women in Beijing, Chen Ke is excellent and charming. Yu Yang took the initiative to pursue her. He will give Chen Ke all expensive gifts and give her many lessons. Do you think Yu Yang doesn't like her?
However, he never wanted to make his relationship with Chen Ke public. Knowing that Chen Ke wanted to get married, he changed the subject again and again. Even Chen Ke specially invited her mother to come to Beijing from Sichuan, while Yang Yuze made an excuse not to attend.
Brave and decisive, Chen Ke resolutely chose to break up. Soon, she changed her mind and married Bai, who had been threatening not to get married. If the time is ripe but he still doesn't want to get married, it may just mean "don't want to marry you" Those who say "don't want to get married" will definitely get married in the end, but not with you.
So many, if there is only one answer. He doesn't really like you that much. Maybe he doesn't really like you at all.
Some people may say that there are so many rules in love, is there no real feeling in this world? Yes, of course, maybe you haven't.
The biggest highlight of this movie is that it shows us the truest side of the relationship between men and women in love, and it doesn't make us despair of love. Beth waited for seven years and finally got the ring. Kiki was disappointed and finally met someone who loved her. Mary has always been single, but she met someone to spend the rest of her life with in a chance meeting.
Kiki finally said: "I may be too sensitive and make a mountain out of a molehill, but at least it shows that I still care." You may not get hurt again, but you will never feel that kind of love. You are not winning, but lonely. "
In true feelings, never trust the rules, but trust your feelings. If a boy doesn't seem to care much about you, then he really doesn't care about you. There are no exceptions. If you think there is a problem between you, there is really a crack, no exception.
Don't test your willfulness, in fact, it is not so stand the test. ......
This romantic movie contains all the emotional problems that everyone in the world will encounter, and even if it is taken out now, it is still worth remembering and thinking about.
The film is directed by ken kwapis, starring Scarlett Johansson, Ben Affleck, ginnifer goodwin, Jennifer Aniston, Jennifer Lynn Connelly and bradley cooper. The actor's plastic surgery is extravagant. Douban points 7.7.
The plot of the story is actually very simple. As a single dog, GIGI is eager to find a suitable person to spend the rest of her life with.
So after gathering friends, colleagues, family and other relationships around her, she started a constant blind date and dating.
But what bothers GIGI is that the boy he likes always seems to say that he wants to contact again and will never appear again. Kiki was going to chase Donna, but in the end he made a mistake and met Donna's good friend Yali. Under the guidance of Yali, GIGI began to chase after other boys, and became more and more brave on the road of love, but in the end she accidentally walked together.
Another heroine in the film is, of course, our goddess Scarlett. There are countless suitors, but by chance, I met a married Ben. Ben was completely helpless in the face of Scarlett's eyes and attractive figure, and resolutely cheated.
Through the story of Anna and Ben, this film gives all the girls in the world a great warning: either the other party's wife and children are separated, you are busy, and finally you know everything; Either the other party chooses to return to the family, and you lose not only the beautiful years, but also the feelings. In short, the end of the third party is often a draw water with a sieve.
The film involves many people's stories, but I just want to tell those who are deeply in love that if they don't love you, please don't fall into the mire of love. After all, if a person really loves you, he (she) will be reluctant to hurt you, and even if he (she) leaves, he (she) will definitely come back for you!
Hello, everyone, I'm glad to answer this question.
When you want to know whether he loves you or not, when you are confused and confused about love, and when you are still thinking about what true love is, then I recommend you to watch this movie "He doesn't really like you that much", and I believe you will find the answer you want in it. I evaluate this film from the following two aspects.
(A) reflect the reality, close to life
The stories told in the film are all things that will happen around us. What impressed me deeply was one of the heroines, Kiki. Gigi feels that all the men who strike up a conversation have a good impression on themselves and are very eager for love. He looks forward to the appearance of his Prince Charming every day, and he is a little narcissistic, but the result is that he is hit again and again. It turns out that people who like you on the surface may not love you, but those who love you will definitely contact you on their own initiative.
Educational significance
This movie can make many women understand what love is. You can teach women to polish their eyes when they meet love, and teach them to see if the man in front of them really loves themselves. Some words or actions of a man are enough to prove that he doesn't like you that much. Therefore, women should respect themselves instead of working hard. In love, everyone is equal, blindly giving in, giving each other various reasons to comfort themselves, will only make themselves more miserable, and can't find the person who cares about loving themselves.
This is my evaluation of this film. I hope I can satisfy everyone. Have a nice movie. Thank you!
I watched this movie when I was a sophomore, and I felt very awake after watching it. It can be said that this is a film suitable for all unmarried young women.
Girl, have you ever met a man with "three noes": no initiative, no refusal and no responsibility?
Girl, have you ever had these questions:
Girl, did you help him find these excuses?
Maybe he has been hurt and dare not love again easily; Maybe he wants to concentrate on his career/studies and doesn't want to fall in love for the time being; Maybe he is introverted and shy, so I need to take the initiative. ...
Don't be silly, girl. He just doesn't like you that much.
There are several love stories in the movie, which are played by Hollywood actresses of goddess level: Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Aniston ... but even goddesses can accidentally become cannon fodder in love.
In these stories, everyone can find their own shadow from a character's emotional experience or personality traits, and feel the same.
Why didn't he call me?
Because he doesn't want to fight.
Why didn't he come to me?
Because he's going to meet someone more important.
Why did he suddenly lose contact?
Because he doesn't want to be with you and he doesn't have the courage to say it himself.
If a man really likes you, he will try his best to contact you;
If a man really likes you, he will take your feelings seriously;
If a man really likes you, he won't let you worry and doubt.
Of course, this film not only reveals the cruel reality, but also reflects the warm dawn.
He doesn't really like you that much, but it doesn't matter. Don't deny your glory just because the other person doesn't love you. There is no way to go because of the winding water flow in the mountains, and a mountain village suddenly appears in the willow-green flower bay. Loving yourself is the real beginning of lifelong romance.
Gigi, the hostess, walked around, came together with Alex and enlightened him again and again. She dares to give her heart, and true love will eventually come.
In the crowd, I searched for her again and again in vain. When I suddenly turned my head, I found her there, dimly lit. Girls, keep your eyes open, keep the bottom line and let the fragrance go quietly. Someone who belongs to you will come.
I'm glad to answer this question.
The movie "He doesn't really like you that much" is based on the best seller. In this movie, Jennifer Lynn Connelly plays a married woman who is tired of her marriage, and Bradley Cooper plays her husband, who is entangled with another woman. The overlapping stories of several people make people lament the hypocrisy of human behavior: Do you really know your man? Maybe he is full of sweet words, but he doesn't like you that much! Maybe he dated you and called you to chat, but he didn't like you that much! A woman who is tired of family and marriage, her husband is unfaithful; A woman who turned to the psychological column because she could never think of what TA expected from this relationship; A woman who is confused about dating and obsessed with technology; A woman who secretly loves another man and is quite calculating, plus the involvement of three men, * * * staged an emotional moment together. You never know what a man looks like behind your back.
This film perfectly and thoroughly shows men's inferiority and hypocrisy. Men, that's what it is. Those beautiful love stories: movies, TV plays and novels are all lies. There is no man who has never betrayed you in his heart. Maybe that's how he started. You think he likes you and how important you are to him. In fact, you are just one of them. Even if he is not with you, he will find a girl in the same situation and start a romantic love story with each other.
In fact, women are also like this. In the final analysis, this is the inferiority of human beings and the hypocrisy of social people. Ironically, we call him hypocritical and despise him hypocritical, but we will soon participate in it or become a member, which is our inescapable fate. However, we have to admit that the original misunderstanding and hypocrisy can still produce true love. Maybe he didn't love you so much at first, but when he knows you better and touches you, you will become his only one. For you, he can even give up those old habits.
Story 1: The heroine has been looking for a man all her life, constantly dating others, waiting for his call after the date, and can't tell whether those men mean it when they say "Nice to meet you or I'll call you". Watching her put her feelings into every date, waiting for his call, I can't help but feel sad, but as she said, "Although I did it silly, at least I put my feelings into it and took it seriously."
Later, he met the owner of the bar. He thoroughly saw the love between men and women. He often helps the heroine analyze whether the man really likes the heroine, but he denies them one by one and points out the hypocrisy of these men. Because of thoroughness, he always keeps his distance from women and is unwilling to convey his sincerity. When the heroine confessed to him, he chose to escape. In fact, he didn't know he was in love. So, the woman began to date again, and the man began to miss her and found himself in love with her.
This woman is undoubtedly happy, and she has finally gained love. So, who says stupid women can't get true love?
Story 2: The woman and her boyfriend have been in love for 7 years. She really wants her boyfriend to hold his wedding. Although he loved her very much, he didn't want to step into the marriage hall, so they broke up. Later, her father fell ill, and she has been taking care of him and the family. Although there are men in the family and my sister is married to her husband, they do nothing, which makes the hostess very confused. The hostess thinks that she is with her boyfriend, and he will share joys and sorrows with her. She finally realized that marriage is not the most important thing, and her life with her boyfriend is actually warmer than that of their married couple. She decided to stay with her boyfriend who loves her very much, and finally designed a small surprise to propose to her.
Only by understanding each other and giving in to each other can we maintain love.
Story 3: The hostess and her boyfriend have been married for several years after graduating from college. Their life is boring. The woman is no longer the original funny girlfriend, but the man meets a sexy woman in the supermarket. He restrained himself several times but failed in the end, entangled with women, but in the end both women left her. They finally realized that men are not the focus of life, and began to look for more meaningful goals, no longer bound. If feelings are forced and reluctant, then love itself loses that flavor!
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