What should I do if I talk to the other party and say that I am shy and don't give WeChat?

I'm sure you will feel embarrassed when we accost a stranger and refuse. Many girls are naturally introverted and will not give you their contact information easily. They should learn some chat-up skills.

What should I do if I talk to the other party and say that I am shy and don't give WeChat?

1, tolerate and understand her personality.

You know very well that because this girl's shy and introverted personality attracts you, you want to know her better, you can't be lovers right away, and you want to start making friends with her. So you should understand and tolerate her personality, and never force her to respond directly to your pursuit or strike up a conversation, because she can't be shy. No matter how you strike up a conversation or pursue it, you should show her your tolerance and understanding of her personality. After all, many people have some prejudices and puzzles about introverts. A girl with this personality is boring. You should convince her that you really like her.

Patience and confidence are equally important.

As a boy in life, if you want to strike up a conversation with a girl, besides being attractive enough, the boy must be confident enough. After all, self-confidence is a necessary condition to start a relationship. But if you want to pursue a shy girl, confidence is not enough. Confidence is as important as patience. Often a shy girl can't talk very well, so her inner world will become very rich. At this time, in the face of your pursuit, she often doesn't clearly express her love or dislike for you, but she will grade you in her heart and take you seriously in her heart. Therefore, in the face of shy girls, you should pay more time and patience and try to understand her inner thoughts through her eyes.

Step 3 show your love

For introverted girls, she doesn't always talk about Kan Kan like a cheerful girl, but their minds are delicate and their glasses are good at observing. They analyze what they observe in their minds. So in the process of pursuing her, sweet words can't win her heart. How to express your love is the key to catch up with her. So you ask how to be a man? Generally introverted girls prefer extroverted boys. At this time, you should talk to her about some topics that can arouse her interest. If you can make her think you are humorous, this is also a good way to chase you. Speaking of the word shyness, it reminds me of a friend from a long time ago. She won't take the initiative to communicate with you every day, but she can understand many things. Even though she is not very good-looking and introverted, there are still many people who like her. It can be seen that introversion is only a part of personality type, not a shortcoming. Therefore, if you like an introverted girl and make up your mind to pursue her, you must remember whether you are successful or not. Introversion is also one of the reasons why you like her. Stop chasing her, and gradually begin to dislike her personality. Finally, when an introverted woman doesn't know that you are interested in her, please open the door of your love to her with confidence, patience and sincerity, and believe that she will come in.

Talk to girls. What?

We often say that as long as you are willing to strike up a conversation and take the step of striking up a conversation, you have already succeeded halfway. Actually, it's not just you who strike up a conversation, but also the opening remarks. Let's take a look at the general mode of chatting up, that is, you introduce yourself, so that the girl you want to chat up can have a preliminary understanding of you and explain her intentions. This intention can increase her sense of security for you, so that girls will not resist you because of your sudden conversation.

1, strike up a conversation skill

In the early stage, it is not recommended that you give exaggerated praise to your sister as soon as you come up, which will make you look very depressed and make the girls who are accosted feel scared. How much praise implies how interested you are in her. It is also not recommended that you ask someone else's girl for her number as soon as you come up without introducing yourself. I believe that no girl will give you the number. In the process of chatting up, don't talk too much nonsense, such as asking people if they are coming to go shopping, asking them if they want to go shopping together, and so on. Obviously, girls may not be too wary of you before, because your overemphasis on being together will make her resist shopping with you and finally run away in a hurry.

2. Opening remarks

Don't force a girl to do something she doesn't want to do. For example, if a girl refuses to give you her phone number or her real name, don't force her. Don't pester girls to ask for numbers, which will not only arouse their disgust, but also you will probably get an empty number or an infrequently used number. Finally, show confidence and strike up a conversation bravely. Keep smiling even if you fail ~

Why does WeChat always fail to strike up a conversation?

1. How to open WeChat chat? Suppose you are a beautiful woman, then imagine the probability that you receive such a WeChat every day: "Are you there? Busy? What are you doing? Do you have any plans for the weekend? " Almost every boy will ask this question when he starts chatting. As a beauty, I am tired of this phenomenon and dealing with these meaningless problems. If you can get to the point in one sentence at this time, it is far better than "Are you there?" Come more effectively. Men should take it as their responsibility to make the conversation not boring and take the initiative to stir up the topic.

2. How to determine whether a beautiful woman is free? Don't ask if it's not what you really want to know; At the same time, if you really want to know, but everyone will ask, you should at least "ask" in another form. For example, if you want to ask her out on weekends, most people will ask, "Are you free this weekend?" For a popular beauty, I don't know how many such questions I will receive every day. The real correct way to ask is "I feel that you are free this weekend ~ and you haven't made any definite arrangements yet". In this form of declarative sentences, girls will find you interesting and not boring, at least you won't lose points.

3. WeChat chat will inevitably encounter things that say the wrong thing. Don't dwell on crazy apologies. Girls are angry and hate only for a while, and then they forget. Girls won't fall in love with you because you solved the problem, but girls will resent you because you have been trying to solve the wrong problem. The correct way is: don't worry about who is right or wrong, just coax it directly.

A girl's affection for you.

First, take the initiative to strike up a conversation

Generally, boys take the initiative to strike up a conversation with girls, which can easily make girls feel disgusted with this boy. Because this is a typical performance with nothing to say, most women will refuse or dismiss it. On the contrary, girls take the initiative to talk to men, and men will never say that this woman is abnormal, because it is too late to be happy. Similarly, in addition to work needs, women take the initiative to talk to men, largely because of their good feelings and interest in you. Otherwise, women will not dare to talk to you even if they are killed.

Second, women will regard you as a confidant.

Even after falling out of love, she will come to you and tell you that she wants to find a new boyfriend as soon as possible, and she will entrust you to introduce her. Ask her what standards and requirements she has for a new boyfriend, and she will be content to find a man like you. After all, people get together, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. Surely your friends are not much worse than you. Maybe the implication of a woman is to wait for you to succeed.

Third, speak vaguely.

When a woman falls in love with a man, she usually doesn't express her mind directly like a man saying "I love you", but gives you a very euphemistic message for you to understand and perceive. For example, when a group of young men and women came back from singing in KTV, a girl suddenly said to you, "Can you heat this bag of milk for me?" At this time, the boy must be confused and think: Why do you want me to cover her heat? Besides, can you cover the heat with your hand? In fact, this is already a girl's intention to express ambiguity to you.

Fourth, she wants to know you.

She will know everything about you, including your past, and you will see her secretly reading your diary, conversation or pictures from a long time ago, and then say nothing, because she is worried that you know that she is silently paying attention to you, but as far as this behavior is concerned, girls must have a good impression on you, so they will understand you.

Step 5 tell you the truth

I often ask you some boring topics and miss you occasionally. I hope you can pay a little attention to her, and I will tell you a lot, including my thoughts on the future and various irrelevant assumptions.