Girls take the initiative to send text messages to boys without replying.

As the saying goes, a woman has a needle in her heart. Many boys always lament that girls' minds are too difficult to guess, especially when chatting.

Sometimes girls' perfunctory words are not available to boys, but they are immersed in the fantasy of their own confession success, the expectation of love and even marriage and children.

But be aware that when a girl really doesn't want to talk to you, you will only be regarded as sexual harassment.

Especially when people have the following behaviors, they have no feelings for you, or they are not interested in your topic at all, or even don't want to talk to you at all.

1. Chatting is too official, and I like to find various excuses to perfunctory you.

I have a friend who often complains to me that his goddess is like this. Most of the answers to the chat content are too official, and it feels like chatting with a superior leader, so that you can't understand her at all.

For example, the following:

Boy: "Are you busy recently?"

Girl: "Not bad!"

Boy: "What's your favorite dish?"

Girl: "Vegetables and fruits ..."

Also, if you want to stop chatting with you or feel impatient with your information, you like to find various excuses to perfunctory you, such as the following:

I took a shower and died in the bathroom.

I went to eat and died at the dinner table.

I went to charge and died in the socket.

This is still a very good situation. When a girl really doesn't want to talk to you, the reason will be very unwilling.

Sorry, I have something to do.

Sorry, my mother just called me.

Sorry, my mobile phone is dead, so I won't tell you.

The girls mentioned above may be out of their own courtesy and self-cultivation, and will not directly ignore you or reply to you, but they will always make you feel alienated.

Because she doesn't want to know about your past or participate in your future. Like two parallel lines, you look very close, but you will never intersect.

After all, loving someone will not push him so far, but will only try to get closer.

This kind of person who can feel cold through the screen really doesn't want to chat with you, but really doesn't like you.

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2. If you don't agree, you will be cold, and you will only send expression packs when chatting.

If she has no feelings for you, if you send her 10,000 messages, her reply will not exceed three words.

"oh oh"

"Uh-huh"

"goodbye"

……

Oh, and "hehe". The word "hehe" can best inhibit the other person's desire to chat. Didn't you say that chatting died of "hehe"?

You tell a joke, and she says haha. You think you are humorous, and the more you talk, the harder you work. Later, you found that "haha" is just a sign to end the topic.

If she thinks you are a person who can't chat and doesn't want to chat, she will enter the embarrassing expression pack mode.

Finally, she didn't even want to find an emoticon, so she used a fixed emoticon, such as a mysterious smile, which might mean termination, you know.

3. Drop the line directly in the middle of the chat, or reply after a long time.

Don't think that I don't like chatting, I just don't like chatting with you.

Or, you are too rude, and your topic is so boring that it is really impossible to talk.

For example, this self-destructive topic:

Can you send me a selfie? Who are you? Do I know you so well?

Step on a girl's pain point (for example, she has a little meat, so why don't you talk about losing weight)

Theoretical research on mathematics and economics (except for related work interests, most of them let me sleep)

Don't blame other girls. This kid's EQ is really low, which pot can't be boiled.

Also, if she often forgets to reply to messages or reply to you every few hours or even days, don't think about it, just don't want to talk to you. Variety, Taobao and even fingernails are more fun than you.

4. The most direct, no response, even blacked out and deleted.

Once a boy added me, and we couldn't talk for two words. Yes, you heard me right, just two sentences short.

Basically, I asked my friends-through friends-to start chatting-to say hello-and then I blacked him out directly. Why am I so cruel?

Not only was he a stranger without permission, but he was not familiar with it. He even gave me a video. After I refused, he bombarded me with videos. I'm sorry, then I'll have to blacken you.

And this. You sent her a lot of messages, but there was no response.

At this time, it is always easy for people to find many excuses for each other: she may not have seen it; She may be taking a bath. She may be eating. ......

You think she must have a reason, otherwise she won't reply to you. As a result, you found that she just sent a circle of friends.

At this time, you will understand. You have time to send friends, but you don't have time to reply to my messages?

Well, I'll tell you a heartfelt fact clearly. I just don't want to talk to you.