Why is my girlfriend slow to reply to my message and doesn't talk much?

Occasionally, it's normal. If your girlfriend often replies to your messages slowly and doesn't talk much, it's perfunctory. Maybe she has an opinion of you, or she has other ideas, so she needs to find out the reasons in time, take countermeasures, resolve the problems and return to normal.

Find the real reason. It seems that through chatting, I guess she won't say it, so it won't work. Because she doesn't want to send you a message. Only ask her to meet, chat face to face and get to know the situation. You know, it's an excuse for you to invite her to dinner, or go to the movies, or go shopping. She is out of town. It's another matter. Then call.

If she can come out, you're halfway there, and the rest will be easy. Speak as planned. If she doesn't come, it proves that something really happened. Then you have to call like this.

Be patient when you speak. This is the bottom line. Maybe she's waiting for you to get excited and angry, and then how to kill your army is her option. You can only say on the phone that you care about her, and don't blame her, lest she be disgusted and make excuses.

If it's because I've been too busy and tired at work recently, I can only share her worries and help her solve problems, and try my best to relieve her fatigue and stress with loving words or actions.

If you have encountered any troubles or difficulties recently, resulting in her indifference to you, you still need to give her spiritual and financial support. Maybe she is seeing if you can understand it.

If there are suitors, it is no longer easy to just send messages. You should do your work seriously, strengthen contact, communicate and deepen your feelings.

There are always ways. Be careful, work patiently and take action.

If there is anything else you need to communicate with me, you can leave me a message in the comment area, and I will answer it in time and help you.