What if my girlfriend is angry and doesn't talk?

As an ordinary young man, I am also caught in the contradictions and disputes arising from this situation. After some setbacks and reflections, I summed up some coping methods and shared them with you.

1, calm down first:

When my girlfriend is angry and doesn't talk, I will calm myself down first. When we are emotional, it is easy to make wrong decisions, so we should let go of our emotions and think rationally first.

2. Try to communicate actively:

If my girlfriend doesn't talk, I will try to communicate with her actively, ask her why she is angry, and express my understanding and views. This can avoid further escalation of contradictions and show their concern and attention.

3. Give some time:

If my girlfriend still doesn't want to talk, I'll give her some time to calm down. At this time, I will leave her for a while, do my own thing, give her time to think and calm down.

4. Send text messages or write letters to express:

If my girlfriend is still unwilling to communicate with me, I will consider expressing my thoughts and opinions by sending text messages or writing letters. This will give your girlfriend some time and space to think in her own time.

5, give care and consideration:

When my girlfriend is angry, I will be especially concerned and considerate of her. This can make her feel her care and warmth, so as to gradually untie the knot.

Personal experience:

Once, we went shopping together and had some minor conflicts in the shopping center. My girlfriend was angry because I didn't follow her advice. At that time, she didn't say it directly and ignored me all the time. I feel very confused and helpless, because I don't know what is the reason for her anger, and I don't know how to solve the problem.

Although my girlfriend has been silent, I still insist on trying to communicate with her. I called her, asked her thoughts and feelings, and expressed my views and attitudes. Let my girlfriend feel my concern and seriousness, so that the communication between us can be smoother.

Although I didn't get a reply from my girlfriend, I chose to give my girlfriend some time and space. Calm her down and think about her thoughts and feelings. Because this can make my girlfriend feel my understanding and respect, thus reducing her emotional burden. Later, my girlfriend also contacted me and said it was her fault. After we apologized to each other, our feelings were reconciled. In the subsequent quarrel, if I quarrel with my girlfriend, no matter who is right or wrong, I will take the initiative to admit my mistake first. Only in this way will the contradiction not continue and there will be a solution.