I confessed to that girl and told her that I shouldn't send her such a message. Later, she asked me what I meant.

Well, first of all, what's your relationship with her, classmates, or friends you met through others?

I think classmates are more likely.

Also, I have a question first, that is, the speed at which she replies to text messages.

Generally speaking, the speed of replying to text messages is directly proportional to the degree to which she pays attention to you.

There are two possibilities for her to reply to your message so slowly:

1, she is thinking about how to answer.

She has never paid attention to you.

If it is 1, there are two results:

1, she wants to reject you.

She wants to accept it, but she thinks it is not good to accept it directly.

But according to her question, I think the second result is more reliable:

Because she asked you what you meant, she thought you were not brave, and she felt a little angry.

The remedy depends on her personality, but if all the girls are generally interested in you, you just have to work harder.

But girls generally don't accept it directly. You can verify it from the side. For example, ask one of your friends to say' You and your wife',' This is your daughter-in-law' and' Your wife is beautiful', and see her reaction. If she doesn't dislike it, it proves that it is almost enough. On the contrary, it is necessary to think about why.