What kind of performance will low emotional intelligence have?

Five manifestations of low emotional intelligence

What is high emotional intelligence and what is low emotional intelligence?

In fact, it mainly depends on whether we feel comfortable with this person.

When we get along with people with high emotional intelligence, we will feel comfortable, while when we get along with people with low emotional intelligence, we will feel uncomfortable all over.

1. Raise yourself by belittling others.

The more a person lacks something, the more important it is to him, the more he shows off.

For example:

"You worked hard to find such a job? Like I do casually, it's twice your salary ~ "

"All your clothes are very cheap. Look at me. I just bought a famous brand yesterday. "

But in fact, this is because I feel that I am not good enough, so I can only raise myself by "belittling" others.

Step on others, the image is not high.

The stronger, the higher the emotional intelligence, the more humble.

2. Always outperform others in language.

This is what we call leverage in real life.

Even if his ideas are no different from yours, he will habitually deny you and then explain what he thinks is right in another way, which often makes people speechless. For example, you said, "The fried rice with eggs at noon is really delicious."

Then he would say, "I think it's not as good as the fried rice with eggs the day before yesterday."

In real life, such examples abound. When they talk to others, they always want to beat others in words.

I hope the other party agrees with my point of view, but I forget the purpose of the conversation. In the long run, I will unconsciously offend people, and others will not talk to you again.

Turn your face away if you don't agree with a word.

Everyone has different flash points and sensitive points, but some people have much more.

Have you ever met a group of people who went out to play happily, but as soon as the result was not what he wanted, he immediately put a straight face and made everyone embarrassed.

This casual temper will affect everyone and always want everyone to revolve around him.

This is not true temperament, this is low emotional intelligence.

People with high emotional intelligence will control their emotions and will not influence others for personal reasons.

4. Tell others about their lives.

Everyone has a different view of life. Maybe you need gold, silver and jewels to be happy, but for some people, perhaps eating an ice cream is enough to be happy. The German philosopher Leibniz once said a very famous saying: There are no two identical leaves in the world.

And everyone's living environment is different, and the things they experience are different. The misfortune in your eyes, perhaps for others, is already a person with great happiness and high emotional intelligence. He will never arbitrarily dominate other people's lives from his own point of view.

Five manifestations of low emotional intelligence

5, immersed in complaints can not extricate themselves

It's cold, complain. It's hot, complaining that there is no air conditioning.

People with low emotional intelligence always complain, as if there is nothing to be happy about in life. In their eyes, family members don't understand themselves, friends are difficult to get along with, and work is very difficult. .......

Being in negative energy for a long time will naturally affect interpersonal relationships. After all, no one likes being with people who complain.

You are not the only one in the world who has a hard time. There are many people who are more difficult than you.

When you are not addicted to complaining, you can be your own sun, warm yourself and illuminate others.