There are only two situations when the ex turns back, and the ex will come back and get back together with you.

Some feelings are missed when they are missed. No matter how hard you try, you may be in vain. You give each other time to wait for your ex to get back together, but when you get back together, you will find that everything has gone bad.

-0 1 "Break up with your ex three times and get back together three times until you are exhausted." Finally, a female reader left me a message about her emotional experience. She said that she had been in love with her first boyfriend for two years, and they were together in college, and they were separated for some time. During this period of separation, she thought a lot.

This boy is her first boyfriend. She feels that she has learned a lot from her boyfriend and also gained her kindness. But when they broke up, she just felt that her boyfriend's attitude towards her was sometimes not good enough.

A good boy always has several opposite sex around him. Any girl can be jealous.

The first time we broke up, she just wanted to test her boyfriend's feelings for her.

A month after they broke up, her ex-boyfriend offered to apologize to her, hoping that she could accept the request of getting back together.

After graduation, the two broke up for the second time, and this time, it was because their parents didn't agree to be together. Considering the long-distance relationship, long-term pain is better than short-term pain.

Female readers go back to their hometown to work for half a year after graduation. During this half year, she could never forget her ex-boyfriend anyway. So she decided to secretly run to her boyfriend's city behind her parents' back, and then proposed to get back together with her boyfriend.

Two people started this relationship again, but after living together for three months, they found that the contradiction between them was really insoluble.

In the end, the two chose to break up, but this time the breakup was more decisive and thorough.

Delete all contact information of each other, exchange mobile phones, and delete all memories about each other in mobile phones, not each other.

If I had known that the final reunion would be the same reason, would two people still choose to meet again and again?

Emotional affairs always fascinate the authorities, no matter how others advise you, it's useless. If you don't hit the south wall, you will never look back.

-02 The ex will get back together with you in three situations. The first one: after shopping for a while, I found each other most suitable.

You haven't been in touch for a long time since you broke up. You each started a new relationship and accepted a blind date arranged by your parents and relatives. You walk aimlessly in the blind date market, watching yourself get older every day, but you never meet anyone who can interest you.

Finally, one day, when you are both able to support yourself and live a good life even if you don't depend on your parents, you will choose to test your ex to see if he is still willing to get back together with you.

If your ex still has you in mind and you also have an ex in mind, then at this time, the two will definitely get back together.

Because you have been running around in the crowd, but you can't find anyone better or comparable to your predecessor.

The second type: the ex is in the emotional blank period and can't find a substitute, so she can only find you.

Some exes are not worth remembering. You gave them a chance to hurt you. Do you want to give them another chance to hurt you?

Some predecessors, after hurting you and breaking up with you, have been in the emotional blank stage; When a person is in the emotional gap for a long time, he will feel lonely and lonely, so he will want to get back together with you first when he has not found the next person to replace you.

It's called getting back together. In fact, the subtext is: I am lonely, you come to relieve my loneliness, we each take what we need and comfort ourselves.

It's just that my ex is good at pretending, and my ex will definitely get back together with them.

Therefore, from the moment you promised to get back together with your ex, it is doomed that you will still be hurt by your ex once.

The third type: the ex is obsessed with you and tries to haunt you.

Some seniors have implemented three attitudes towards love: bold, cautious and thick-skinned.

You broke up with him in the interaction, but it didn't affect his wishful thinking.

After breaking up, he still pretended that nothing happened, continued to send you messages, continued to care about you, came to see you when he was free, and sent some gifts to your address every three days.

Some exes want to get back together with you just because they really can't forget you, and you occupy a high position in their hearts; Because of this, they don't want to leave regrets, so they want to seize the opportunity to pursue you again before you start a new relationship.

-03 If your ex asked you to get back together, would you agree? Although the word "predecessor" is only a simple word, it is an indelible memory in most people's hearts and a deeply loved and deeply rooted story.

Your ex came to see you. Do you want to get back together with him?

Before you decide to get back together with your ex, I want you to consider two questions carefully:

The first question: How deep are your feelings for your ex?

Can you imagine that if you get back together with your ex, your subsequent love life and your relationship will be the same or even better than before?

The second question: Have you found a solution to the reasons and contradictions of your breakup with your ex?

If you have solved these two problems and still have thoughts and deep feelings for each other, try again. After all, people can leave few regrets in this life.

But every regret needs a lifetime to let go.

Today's topic: If your ex came to get back together with you, would you agree?