Wechat does not reply or only replies to a sentence, which is more hurtful? Why?

I think it hurts more to reply only one word. Although it hurts not to reply, it hurts even more to reply only one word. I added a colleague when I was a summer job before. After the summer vacation, he also chats with me from time to time. When I first started school, I basically answered my questions in time, but later I became more and more busy. I only answered one word of his question, because I was a little tired but I couldn't help it. But in class, he told me that my answer was a bit perfunctory. Later, I found out why, and he also sent messages and chatted from time to time as before. Although he was very busy, I didn't answer, and he didn't say anything after that. So it hurts even more to answer only one sentence. If you don't return, you may not be available, and you may not be on WeChat.

My personal opinion is that the most hurtful thing is that WeChat does not reply. If a person can reply to you, I think this person will reply to you anyway, and there is nothing sad.

Later, after several days, I still opened WeChat and didn't reply to me. I know I don't have to wait any longer and she won't reply to me. At this moment, I am really sad.

She was my classmate in high school. She did well in high school. Every day, she will relax and chat together. Later, she kept in touch for several years. All of a sudden, she treated me like this, and I felt really hurtful, especially since she didn't answer me a word.

Through this incident, I understand that when I find someone else on WeChat, if someone else's WeChat can reply to me in time, I won't have to wait all the time and I won't be too sad.

Friends, I think after all this, I really understand that sometimes a relationship you think can last for a long time may not necessarily go bad one day.

Although the feelings between people are beyond our control, the only thing we can do is to have a clear conscience!

Because others don't reply, it may make a person who has been waiting for a reply particularly sad. If others can reply even a word, maybe we don't need to wait for a reply, and we won't feel the pain of waiting.

I am Nancy. On the emotional road, I will answer your questions so that you will not be lonely and helpless.

Wechat doesn't return a message or a sentence, which is more hurtful?

He Jin 20 18-09-02 06: 18

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People who don't return to WeChat are clearly telling you that there is no place for you in another world, so you'd better take care of yourself. Don't have any illusions about TA. You are two parallel lines that never intersect. You should run in their own tracks and not interfere with each other. The person who only answers one sentence may be more important in your heart than Mount Tai, but you may just be insignificant in the other person's heart, not the person the other person cares about. If a person cares about you, he will never just answer a word, but will say a thousand words to you, hoping to report all his whereabouts to you, so if you meet someone who cherishes words like gold, please know how to let go of yourself and the other person. Therefore, people should know their own direction and position whenever and wherever, grasp themselves well, don't be trapped by feelings, and don't hurt themselves into pieces!

Now there is a surplus of information, and we often encounter situations where the other party ignores the information. What would you do if it were you?

First, people in your life who don't return your messages.

You often send a message (WeChat, QQ, SMS, phone). If the other person values you, no matter how busy you are, it usually takes only one second.

Think about men and women in love, are they all rushing to say that they have no nutrition and return information every second? If the men and women in love find it inappropriate after the enthusiasm, usually one end cools down first, and the other end fades away slowly. After a long time, they calm down and put it down. Crazy fans and brain-dead players like chasing Andy Lau and Wang Leehom are rare, so how can they get into the show? !

The same is true of relationships between friends. They used to live near each other, or in the same unit or club (such as badminton, basketball, football, running), but their contact will gradually decrease due to job changes or address adjustment. There used to be many possible parties, but gradually everyone faded away. After all, in a city like Beijing, it is difficult to get together once. It's often a date at the beginning of the year, but I won't see you after the year. It turned out that there was a basketball team in the community, which played once a week and had dinner together. Everyone is wild and having a good time. Every time I sweat, I eat and boast. I am very happy. The interaction within the group is very good. They persisted for 65,438+00 years, but as people gradually moved away because of work and children's schooling, they dispersed.

There are original primary school students, middle school students and college students. Some of them were assigned to the same city. At the beginning, they can get together every once in a while and have frequent information interaction. However, with the promotion of the position and the decline of the income level, the group of students gradually lost interest, and even some students did not reply to your news (some mixed well, some mixed badly).

A human resources director once said to me, "Miss Deng, I've always wanted to see you, but I haven't had time."

I replied, "I've always wanted to see it, but I can't, because I don't need to see it."

Second, people who don't return messages at work.

People who don't return your messages at work are divided into several categories:

1, your leader.

The reason why the leader doesn't reply to your message may be: he is busy; He didn't think it over; He doesn't like you; He felt it unnecessary; He doesn't feel the need to reply to you now.

Anyway, if the leader doesn't reply to the information, there is generally nothing he can do. Even if there are countless drafts in your heart, smile when you see the leader. After all, the leader is your biggest customer, and there is no way. The best solution is to improve yourself, improve your quality and gain the trust of leaders. After all, with trust, you have rights. If you really can't, change your unit.

2. Your peers.

Your colleague didn't reply you because: he didn't see it; He thinks it's better to say it in person; He didn't want to answer; He doesn't know how to answer; He pretended not to see it.

There is no reporting relationship between colleagues, and there is no assessment constraint. Things that are important to you may have lower priority in colleagues.

If you really can't, just dig a hole and bury him.

3. Your subordinates.

If your subordinates dare to do so, it may be because your official prestige is not enough and you are too close to the people; Or employees ignore this; Or employees are playing dumb; Or you met an excellent employee.

Both hurt, but if I have to choose one, I still feel more painful if I don't come back.

There are several reasons for generally not returning to WeChat:

1, I didn't see it.

Some people may have thousands of friends on WeChat, which contains many unread messages, such as advertisements for work, friends and relatives. In this case, it is common to miss reading WeChat. It may take several days before you take the time to read WeChat and see the message you sent, but the content of your message is irrelevant, such as what you are doing, whether you are busy or not, and others think you can go back, so you just put it on hold.

You are not important in his mind, and he doesn't think it necessary to reply.

This kind of situation usually happens between people who have little friendship and are not familiar with each other. He didn't reply to the message, which means that he clearly told you that he didn't want to talk to you, and it's no use sending it again.

3. I don't like you

Your relationship may be very close, and you may not feel anything, but he doesn't like you, regards your news as an interruption and ignores you at all.

4. pretend not to see it

It is difficult for him to reply to the message you sent. He is embarrassed to say anything, so he might as well pretend not to see the message you sent.

In fact, no matter what reason the other party doesn't reply to your message, the message sent is really bad, and there is a feeling of being ignored, which is easy to make people daydream. Some people will pick up their mobile phones every once in a while to see if there is any news back, for fear of missing WeChat. When there is no reply, I feel very affected and frustrated.

Therefore, we should face up to the phenomenon that there is no response to the information sent, and don't let our mood be easily affected. Do what you have to do. If you want it back, you will.

Back to a word:

For example, "Oh", "Well" and "Oh" are actually better than not coming back, which makes people feel that they are coping or responding; When you reply to the words "good" and "very good", you will not feel uncomfortable, but only feel the cooperation of the other party. To reply to a word, we must look at the specific artistic environment, and we can't knock over a boat with one pole.

No message returned:

If you often send messages in your life and the other person attaches importance to you, no matter how busy you are, it usually takes one second. Especially for men and women in love, regardless of whether the dialogue is nutritious or not, they usually answer in seconds. There is another kind of person who doesn't reply to the news because he forgot. Such people often see the news at that time and want to reply later. When they think about it, it may be hours or days, and they think it is meaningless to reply again, so they simply don't reply.

Actually, it's good not to reply to the news. For example, when a person you don't like pursues you and keeps sending you messages, at this time, you choose not to return the messages. After a long time, he will understand what you mean and won't bother you too much.

So to sum up, I think when WeChat does not reply or only replies to a word depends on the specific artistic environment at that time, but personally, it hurts to reply to a word, and there is always a perfunctory feeling.

I think it hurts the most that WeChat doesn't reply ~

The most convenient thing now is the mobile phone. The intimacy with mobile phones is faster than that of couples, almost to the point where mobile phones never leave. You even take your cell phone to the bathroom.

Therefore, WeChat is the easiest information to receive, and you can't even find a suitable excuse because you don't reply to WeChat.

Once I was angry because my family didn't reply in time ~ that day he went to a far-away construction site and didn't come back at night, so he began to send messages to ask him if he had eaten. After sending it out, I began to wait for his reply. I take my mobile phone with me everywhere, for fear that he won't see it when he returns the message. Who knew there was no reply at that time? I think he may be busy with something! After waiting for nearly 20 minutes, I didn't reply, so I sent another message asking him if he was unwell. Because I caught a cold when I went to the construction site, I waited for about ten minutes after the second message was sent, but there was still no reply. I couldn't help worrying, so I made a phone call so that I could know how he was right away. But I was told that he was busy playing mahjong after receiving the call. ...

I felt so wronged at that time! You just play cards. At least I won't worry and think. Even if you only answer one or two words!

So I think the most hurtful thing is that WeChat doesn't reply.

Do not reply, choose to ignore, and ignore automatically; It is perfunctory to reply only one word.

I feel more painful not to come back.

In everyone's WeChat, there will be such a person, and you and he met and fell in love because of fate.

You used to come and go, interact enthusiastically, and stay together from good morning to good night. You and he have a tacit understanding, appreciate each other and walk through each other's world, which brings happiness to each other.

All feelings will fade from thick to thin, and all stories will be written to the ending.

As time goes on, this relationship gradually fades. You move from strangeness to familiarity, and from familiarity to another strangeness, but you didn't delete each other, just let them lie quietly in each other's address book.

Every special day, you will still think of him and want to send a greeting, but when the news comes, it will sink into the sea and your heart will sink into the sea.

Inexplicable heartache and sadness, so many beautiful things in the past come to mind. It would be great if life were like the first time. However, life is not just like seeing it for the first time, there are too many sad painting fans.

You have no other meaning, just want to send a blessing and holiday greetings. However, he chose to turn a blind eye.

You know, in the era when mobile phones never leave their hands, there is no invisible news, only people who don't care about you. He either hates you or has forgotten it, so he chooses to ignore it.

In fact, you don't expect any seconds to answer, you just want him to answer even a word or two. Even if it is only perfunctory, it is better than turning a blind eye.

Once or twice ... he didn't reply many times. You are used to it, but the heart you are still worried about is crushed by his neglect and indifference.

Gradually, you understand that he is the one you still care about, and you are the one he may not have.

I am Liu Qi, a man obsessed with words, a poor writer, and I have published several books. Words are the longest companionship, and I walk with you all the way! These are just my personal views on feelings. Welcome to discuss and communicate.

Wechat platform has more than one billion users, and WeChat language exchanges (words, sounds, expressions, etc. ) has gradually developed into another very common way of communication besides "face-to-face communication" of modern people.

We don't even need each other in front, so we can guess and feel each other's status and chat atmosphere through the dialog box of WeChat communication.

The expression of WeChat words and the meaning of expressions have gradually evolved into an emotional exchange. Among them, there are many possibilities behind "WeChat does not reply" and "only replies one word", and the emotional exchange and atmosphere of chat also have different meanings.

"WeChat does not return"

1, the most common situation is that the other party really didn't see WeChat, and the other party fell asleep, and the phone was dead, disconnected and lost. ...

Therefore, in this regard, it is acceptable not to return for the time being.

I don't want to go back. Don't want to go back is nothing more than a few situations:

-the other party is very busy. I saw your WeChat, but I have more important and urgent things to do. I wanted to reply to you later, but I forgot.

-The other party is very busy and feels disturbed at an inappropriate time, so he doesn't return.

-The other party thinks that you have communicated clearly with him, and you are impatient. Please call him again.

-If the other person doesn't want to start a new topic with you, or doesn't want to continue the previous topic, you'd better be conscious.

—— The most serious thing is that the other party really doesn't like or even resent chatting with you on WeChat, so they don't return.

When a person is busy, it is impossible not to watch the mobile phone all the time, let alone watch WeChat for several days. No matter how busy he is, he never returns to you when he is free. Maybe the other person really doesn't care about you and your affairs at all.

I don't want to go back because I don't know how to go back.

Wechat language can also express emotions, a paragraph of text, an expression, and everyone will have different emotions to substitute and understand. Therefore, in the chat conversation, the other party does not reply, or it may be that the other party feels "I don't know how to reply" when understanding your WeChat language.

For example, the leader asks you at night if a certain document is ready?

In their leisure time at home after work, many people don't want to reply when they see such a WeChat pop-up, and they don't know how to reply without completing the information required by the leaders.

For example, when some straight men are chatting with girls, the girls chat and say: There is a movie that I really want to see, but no one is accompanying me.

Straight man replied: then don't watch it, wait for someone to accompany you.

How do girls cope at this time? Can I not return it directly?

For example, if you are playing a game, your girlfriend sends you a WeChat asking what you are doing. At this time, you are playing spicy food. You know she doesn't like you playing games, so suddenly she doesn't know how to reply.

"recite only one word"

Is it more likely to reply only one word?

For example: Ha, um, er, oh, hey, oh, ah ... There are different scenes.

1, you told a joke humorously, and the girl replied: Ha.

This is normal.

2. When exchanging jobs with colleagues, reply "Yes" when ending the topic.

It is also very common.

3. You make the other person angry, angry, and the other person replies "Oh".

Very common

4. The other person is busy and not suitable for chatting. Answer or not answer in one sentence.

Don't be surprised by anything unusual.

5. If you used to send a lot of WeChat content and it was segmented, the content was normal chat. In leisure time, the other person replies "Oh" or "Um" or an expression. Then please don't go on, because in this case, you don't care about continuing licking, so why wait for the other person to reply to your miracle in more than two sentences?

You can send WeChat to people who care about you and give you a warm reply, instead of constantly sending WeChat to "artificial language barrier robots".

No matter whether the other person doesn't answer or just answers a sentence, if it is based on the fact that the other person doesn't care about you, you can feel it through chatting.

You have to understand that silence is a reply, and a reply is a reply. There is nothing more positive.

We may not be able to reply in seconds or "chat", but when we see WeChat tips, we will always remember that replying is a kind of respect and courtesy.

No one can lose anyone in the WeChat dialog box. Talk more if you can talk. If you can't talk, you will sink to the end. Don't worry about whether a person doesn't reply. There will always be several friends in WeChat friends who can reply to you in seconds or always reply to you.

At this time, you may wish to see if there is a dialog box in your WeChat friends that you forgot to reply.

Before ending the topic, tell me a scene I saw in a crowded subway (first of all, I apologize because I saw someone else chatting)

A girl was chatting with her boyfriend on WeChat with her mobile phone in the early morning. The girl asked where her boyfriend was now.

The boyfriend said that he was on a business trip somewhere, and the girlfriend replied: Will you go to see your ex-girlfriend?

As a result, the other party has not returned.

At this time, I saw this girl open WeChat every three to five seconds, edited a paragraph and wanted to send it and delete it.

Then type: I'm sorry, I'm kidding.

Finally, after waiting for a long time, the other party replied with a dynamic expression, nothing else.

At this time, the girl replied: You are busy.

This is the end of the topic. From here, we can see whether we can return or not. In fact, many emotions and moods in WeChat communication are very fast and unprepared. The key is who you are chatting with, what topic you are talking about, and what kind of reply the other party is.

Seeing this, how much emotional communication do you think this conversation contains? Is the woman wrong or the man wrong? What story will happen to them next?

Hi, I'm Xiao Bei, to answer this question.

If you don't answer a word on WeChat, which one hurts more?

Which is more hurtful, WeChat not returning messages or simply returning a sentence?

It's like the difference between not eating and eating a grain of rice. You are full.

It hurts!

The meanings expressed are often similar.

Don't come back for one minute: not online by default.

Don't come back for five minutes: I didn't see it by default.

Don't come back for half an hour: busy by default.

Don't come back for an hour: I don't want to come back by default.

I don't return most of the time: I don't want to talk by default.

Don't answer all day: even if you see the information, you don't want to pay attention. You don't care at all.

This is the most normal psychological state of people.

In today's society, communication tools such as WeChat QQ are basically inseparable. If you say you don't read the same WeChat every day, no one will believe you.

I somehow feel that people who reply to my words are hateful.

I hate this answer.

"hmm"

"oh"

"good"

"ok"

Isn't that perfunctory?

So compound words are also very popular now.

Let communication be less offensive and less perfunctory.

Although the meaning is similar, the difference between a word and two words is different after all. At least you pay more attention to each other and you are willing to type one more word.

In both cases, there may be the following reasons:

1, busy

Nowadays, most people have a fast pace of life, get up early and work hard, and even lose entertainment time.

So sometimes when you see the information on WeChat, it is not particularly urgent, and you will choose to shelve it. At most, I will reply a sentence, indicating that I have seen the information, but there is no following.

(suggestion: send a voice yourself and tell the other party that you are busy and it is not convenient to reply to the message for the time being. )

2. Not interested

Chatting with someone you like, no matter how busy, will secretly return a message.

Instead of answering messages, perfunctory messages are because there is no interest.

The other person is not the one you care about.

So when you see such information, you have no desire to reply at all.

(suggestion: if you don't want to maintain this relationship, you might as well just delete it. )

The above is my own personal opinion.

I used to like to reply "hmm", but later I thought the overlap was more reliable, so I replied "mm-hmm"!

I have obsessive-compulsive disorder, and I can't see numbers in icons such as WeChat, QQ and SMS. As long as there is a number, I will open it as soon as possible. If I see it, no matter who it is, I will reply as soon as possible. Generally, the two words that receive the most replies are "mm-hmm".

Unless your mobile phone is not with you, you may not even reply to the message, but you will reply as soon as you see it.

Silence hurts the most.

I always think silence hurts the most. When someone sends you a message, you don't reply. It seems to make others understand that you didn't check your mobile phone and didn't reply in time, but for some people who are in a hurry, it is the most uncomfortable thing, which directly affects our previous relationship with friends.

The most unacceptable thing for me is that people send text messages without replying. What's even more annoying is that after you sent a text message, it has been deleted.

Deleting you, blacking you out, all affect us.

Answer a word, at least respect it.

I think it's really respectful to reply a word. Even if we meet, at least let others know that I respect each other. Although, this word makes people feel that the game is "like a throat."

However, at least you have achieved respect and won't be kind to your friends without seeing rejection.