Only to find that the object is very open ... what should I do?

Today's society This situation should be normal, right? I can see from your conversation. Your family's tutor is quite strict. You should belong to a more traditional family. Actually, to be honest, women are too open. The average person will care a little. But there is nothing we can do in this society. Everyone has different ideas. In other words, there are certain differences between your two family backgrounds. If you really love her, you can try to get along with her. As you said, it doesn't explain the shortcomings of the other party. This is just a correct way for them to protect themselves, but if you care about this, I don't recommend you to be together. Because there will be more contradictions in the future, but if you can accept his family's situation, as long as it is not too open, you two really like each other. It doesn't matter much to find that the other party is too open through a period of communication. That's another situation. In other words, this woman is too self-loving. Then there is no need to be together. Because it will definitely not be happy in the future. This is just personal advice, depending on how you two feel.