A fan of Huang Zitao committed suicide due to emotional difficulties. His chat records with his man were exposed, and his low self-esteem led to tragedy.

When Huang Zitao’s call for Ding Zhen became a hot search again,

It was he who called Ding Zhen his brother and posted this on Weibo the day before,

Thank you... Have a good trip

What?

Who is this?

This fan called Daidai Teacher,

Her real name is Dai Wen, and she is a painter by profession,

Her Weibo

The last painting is of a pistol held to the girl’s head,

with the text “Death can’t make me give up loving you”,

The girl’s expression is painful and desperate< /p>

Her paintings were not in this style from the beginning.

Earlier,

I drew a girl holding a kitten

I also drew a girl who acted coquettishly to her boyfriend in love

A 15-minute daily sketch,

shows the characters with all the details of their expressions online

not dull at all.

Pouting and looking at the mobile phone

A girl walking with arms folded in winter

Also because of her online business capabilities,

Painted for Huang Zitao in June Got a cp about him

It was specially assigned to him,

It is still the two-dimensional character that Huang Zitao himself likes

#Don’t get hung up on which character it is, It’s right that Huang Zitao is always the one he likes...

Posted to Chaohua,

Immediately turned over by the real owner

Updates in the comment area It was an expression of love

I was so excited that I sent him an offer that day

I continued to draw another one the next day

The invitation to the studio, < /p>

It wasn’t just casually,

Five days later,

Huang Zitao’s staff really contacted her

But unfortunately, she refused at the time .

The reason for the rejection, a friend revealed,

was because he didn’t want to be too far away from her boyfriend.

Perhaps, the seeds of tragedy have been quietly planted at this time

If she had chosen Huang Zitao’s offer at this time,

Wouldn’t the ending be the same as it is now? .

But this is a hypothesis after all.

After Dai Wen committed suicide,

Looking at the chat records released by her friends,

She (Perhaps earlier) I met my tattoo artist boyfriend.

In early October, my boyfriend introduced Dai Wen as his girlfriend in front of his friends.

Their relationship was confirmed

After just a week,

the two began to argue,

and it was on the verge of breaking up.

The boyfriend called her stupid,

In order to apologize,

first went to the other person’s studio and waited until 4 o’clock in the morning,

then sent another message Sorry,

The response I got was,

My boyfriend deleted me as a WeChat friend

hao

The reason for deletion,

In other words, she doesn’t love her anymore.

But from Daiwen’s perspective,

This is because her boyfriend is a strict person.

Her boyfriend gave her

Pinpin’s aggressive tone

He even scolded her for being extremely egoistic

(Dai Wen was chatting with her friends)

At the end of the month, I finally came out with the guidance of a friend.

I realized my boyfriend’s shortcomings:

He doesn’t respect others and has no empathy...

< p> I was also ready to break up

As a result, my boyfriend didn’t want to break up.

Daidai did refuse to get back together at first.

But he couldn’t stand the other party. All kinds of sweet words;

For example, after living for more than thirty years, I met a girl like you for the first time,

You are my destiny...

< p> Got back together again

After getting back together,

The situation has gotten significantly worse from generation to generation.

At 1 o'clock in the morning,

I will send a photo of scissors to my friends,

Besides, I will say that I am a coward who is afraid of death

She also recalled buying flowers in the middle of the night,

just to make her boyfriend happy.

She was still very scared all day,

for fear that she would do something wrong again. Make the other person unhappy

As for the boyfriend,

is extremely controlling,

does not allow his girlfriend to leave the house or drink alcohol

Drinking should be considered one of her hobbies

After all, being a painter requires you to stay up late to paint, which is very stressful.

#Drinking appropriately is also a process for her to relieve stress...

A week ago,

It can be felt from the complaints between her and her friends,

p>

Her boyfriend's attitude towards her is already very bad.

Even if you don’t have a meal with him,

the boyfriend will be unhappy

Seeing that the boyfriend is unhappy,

the woman will cancel immediately

She expressed her love to her boyfriend again,

#Looking at the screenshots of her and her boyfriend, she is thinking about each other both inside and outside her words, and what she hopes for is the same. He could be happy every day

But two days later,

the two still broke up.

In the early morning of the 26th,

"Rose Machine Gun" was found to have committed suicide in her home

Countless people felt sorry for her passing.

She She is really a very beautiful girl.

Not only talented,

but also good-looking

Some recent photos on Weibo

Also independent enough,

p>

Not only does she work as a painter,

she also provides training to some students

Students secretly took photos of her in class

She also has a good personality ,

I will reply to fans’ private messages when I see her

While regretting her passing,

Her friends are even more angry at her boyfriend’s indifference.

According to her friend’s Weibo,

After learning that she had an accident,

Although her boyfriend arrived at the scene of the accident,

he was not there during the whole process. Asked to go in to see my girlfriend for the last time

#What's the point of vomiting?

I didn't even communicate with my family members

I just saw what happened on Weibo After a while,

I told my friend that I didn’t want the chat history between the two to be leaked anymore,

because that (telling him) would be tantamount to destroying his bones and spreading ashes

(Chat history between Dai Wen’s friend and Qiang Qiang’s friend)

And through Dai Wen’s friend,

Qiang Qiang’s non-response,

said Because I didn’t do a good job in public relations

When communicating with Dai Wen’s friends,

I was also very vigilant,

I would secretly record them

Later,

the man’s identity was revealed.

His real name is Qiang Qiang.

Weibo

He is a tattoo artist.

I have the business ability

I have the reputation,

I have a good relationship with the lead singer of Joyside

I am also rational enough,

According to a friend,

November 25th was the day he broke up with his girlfriend.

But the breakup did not affect his career at all.

Updated on the same day

It can also be seen that

Dai Wen loves him very much.

At the beginning of the month, he used the word "boil" to express his dislike of the rainy days in Chongqing

Dai Wen immediately commented on this picture to him

Real people look like this

After Dai Wen committed suicide,

this matter briefly became a hot topic

and then quickly fell silent.

Powerful, but no response so far.

The matter of Dai Wen,

always makes Ju unable to help but think of the "Peking University Bao Li" case.

Like Dai Wen,

Bao Li is also good enough.

She was admitted to Peking University, joined the student union, and passed the objective questions of the department examination. /p>

She is also independent enough.

Not only did she not spend any money from her boyfriend during the relationship,

she also lent money to the other party several times

(Bao Lihe Best friend’s chat history)

In addition, the two also have many similarities in personality.

Inferiority,

This is what Dai Wen wrote on Weibo,

I always have a deep-rooted inferiority complex towards myself

Kind,

Always thinking about the other person

She also likes to reflect on herself

Low self-identity,

Friends’ evaluation of her, Sensitive

As for the other party,

is not only good at sweet words

but also likes to control his girlfriend in the name of love

The following is Dai Wenhe Chatting with friends

He also deliberately isolated his girlfriend’s social circle,

obliterated her daily hobbies,

Even Dai Wen herself felt being pua< /p>

Self-denial + the other party’s suppression,

makes Dai Wen always feel like she is not worthy of the other party.

It was this kind of mentality that made her choose to commit suicide.

In fact,

every time similar incidents occur,

when discussing how to prevent PUA,

always tell girls that they should be confident,

But for girls like Dai Wen who have suffered from low self-esteem for a long time,

no one tells them,

how to be confident,

There may not be anyone around you to imitate.

Whenever this happens,

I can’t help but pull Michelle Ye and Zhang Yuqi to have a joint class,

Treating feelings,

< p> These two people really managed to express themselves and love everyone.

I still remember when Zhang Yuqi and Wang Xiaofei were in love,

Wang Xiaofei was rumored to have a bad temper,

Unexpectedly, Zhang Yuqi was not spoiled at all,

The rumors about the two of them are like this

The outside world’s evaluation of her,

is also a shrew

But does she care?

Next love,

Still going my own way,

When I was with Wang Quanan,

was photographed again

After Wang Quanan was exposed as a prostitute

she chose to divorce immediately.

Until now,

Although she and Yuan Bayuan ended up divorcing,

I have not seen her lose any confidence in life,

Still confident wherever I am.

After getting an X, I was very happy to ask the judges,

Does this mean I am particularly good?

A sentence on the night we formed a group,

If you dare to love, I will accompany you everywhere.

/p>

He bowed his head after being laughed at

The chat history of the two was also made public.

The WeChat note to the boyfriend made it easy for the outside world to write again

< p> But to Xuan Ye herself, these comments

seemed not to exist.

She still dragged her boyfriend to the interview.

During the interview,

Regardless of whether there is a camera or not,

Express your love to your heart’s content

Although this relationship ended in a breakup,

But the impact on Michelle Ye’s state ( At least on camera),

is almost zero.

She shoots vlogs, hosts live broadcasts, appears on shows, and films

There is no delay in anything.

Did you find that,

The above two people in love,

have changed the society's stereotype of women in love,

Be obedient, considerate, and tolerant of each other.

Both Michelle Ye and Zhang Yuqi are extremely confident,

put their own needs first,

even if they are sometimes described as shrews because of inappropriate behavior ,

Sometimes thousands of people talk down on relationships,

But so what?

Because whether the other person is good or not,

After all, you know best.

Always be confident and put your own feelings first.

Only then can you avoid being PUA.

The last sentence

Many girls in love

actually know that the other person has a problem

But because of feelings or face or various reasons< /p>

Choose to forgive again and again

I hope these girls understand

Only by leaving the scumbag first

can they embrace a better life