Today is my birthday. I accidentally saw my husband sending messages to other women at night. what do you think? Please analyze it carefully.

In this case, don't bother him. Don't let him know that you saw this message, let alone ask him face to face, which will make him lose face. First of all, you should trust him and think about whether you have neglected him recently or done anything that makes him suspicious. Secondly, look carefully in the future, but don't let him see it. I believe he is a little lonely inside, just looking for someone to entertain himself. You should have enough self-confidence, because you say he is an honest man, so you should communicate with him more in the future, or respect that woman, and even you two women can take the relationship closer. When you really feel nothing wrong, you can pretend to mention your birthday to him casually and ask him how he felt that day. Even if there is, if you still love him, you should show full trust and make him feel moved and guilty. After all, for men, no matter how good the outside is, the inside is what they decide to spend their lives.