How to catch up with the boy Zhihu you like?

When you meet a boy you like and decide to pursue him, you must know whether he can entrust him for life. First, you must be friends for several months and know his living habits and attitudes. Because some living habits can't be changed, such as snoring, sloppy and so on. There is also a circle of friends in boys' lives. If he is aimless every day and doesn't know how to maintain relationships with friends around him, it will be boring for you to be boyfriend and girlfriend in the future. After all, there is still a big difference between men chasing women and women chasing men. Boys chasing girls are like casting a net for fishing. If we don't catch them, it won't have much impact, and even feel that it's good to experience them. However, if women's courtship is unsuccessful, the psychological pressure of girls will be very great, because most girls are weak and easy to care about themselves. Therefore, women must be cautious when chasing. After a period of understanding, they will decide whether to chase or not.

Step 2 understand his situation

First of all, we should understand his family and life, first of all, we should educate his parents from his family, and then our friends and colleagues around him. Then ask him about his hobbies and what he usually likes to do. If you want to chase a boy, you should first approach him from his hobbies, so that he won't think you are fake. If you are already friends or close, start with him, find more topics that he may know, start with his psychological defense, slowly make him feel good about you, make him want to chat with you, and then euphemistically express his feelings in the follow-up communication. If you don't know him, approach him slowly through your friend or his friend to enhance your familiarity. Finally, slowly develop to your friends. Remember, you can't rush for success, and it's easier to lose his good opinion of you.

3. Send him a sweet message

Many friends will say that it is difficult to send sweet words to the boy you like, but I want to tell you here that many boys are very happy to see the message you sent him that you like him! And many times you just need to send a simple message, "Every time I see you, my heart beats inexplicably, and I seem to like you a little", or "Have we met somewhere, as if we have known each other for a long time?" Wait, in short, there is nothing wrong with saying sweet words to the person you like, but it will definitely ignite the spark of love for you.

Step 4 praise him

Everyone likes to hear others praise him, let alone a girl praise a boy. Some girls may not know that they have this attraction, which will make boys want to chat with you and find various topics to chat with you. Boys are the same as Ye Zhi. Praise a boy must be realistic, for example, praise that he is dressed very handsome and stylish today, or say that his eyes are charming, so that he will not exaggerate, and you will be perfunctory.

5. Ask him out to play when you get familiar with him.

After you know each other for a few months, if possible, you can invite him to climb mountains, visit parks, watch a movie you have been waiting for for a long time, or make an appointment to go out for a run every day. In this way, the more opportunities you have, the more reluctant he will be to you, but don't confess at this time, because he regards you as the best person, but you will never succeed in confessing to him at this time. There is a saying that falling in love between you is the fastest way to die.