Friends of the opposite sex have been using routines to trap me. What kind of psychology is it? How to deal with it?

Friends of the opposite sex use routines to trap you. It must be for something, either your money, your color, your resources, or you (just like you) ... In short, there must be.

In this case, you should analyze it from two dimensions:

First, do you like ta?

If you like it, then you can pretend to enjoy the routine on the premise of ensuring your own safety and confirming each other's personality, and then turn against each other. This is a strategy that some heterosexual men and women will adopt in the early stage of communication, and some people's love begins like this;

If you don't like ta, you can ignore ta or explicitly inform, refuse or even pull it out!

Second: Find out each other's personality and motivation as soon as possible. If there is a problem with character, just pass it. If the character is ok, it means that ta is interested in you and likes you. Then go back to Erie and act according to the strategy of one.

In short, men and women can have routines, which can be used as a way to maintain and enhance intimate relationships and quickly warm up their feelings, but don't be infatuated and excessive, otherwise it will be counterproductive. The most important thing is that routines must be based on sincerity!

Want to cheat you, cheat money or cheat color, depends on what you have.

If you don't want to be cheated, this is the simplest and rudest. Just hack him.

If your EQ is high enough, you can also fight him. It's not necessarily who cheated. The more people want something, the easier it is to be led by the nose.

Routine is a derogatory term. Its antonym is strategy.

What's his purpose in trying to trick you? Of course you know he wants you.

His purpose is clear. In order to achieve his goal, his methods are varied. It's hard for him to come up with so many methods. It's obvious that he has them in his head.

You seem to have no sympathy for him, but you are disgusted with him. That being the case.

Maybe you should say goodbye to him.

How to stop thinking about this matter, is this heterosexual friend a man or a woman, a woman! No matter whether two people have a family or are single, if they are both single, their communication is normal. If you have a good impression on them, you can get married smoothly! What about your married friends of the opposite sex? Then I want to tell you that this relationship is particularly dangerous. If you don't feel too much, or already feel the impending consequences between each other, then explain the situation quickly! Make your thoughts clear! Still friends in the future! Otherwise, you can't even be friends in the future! It is impossible for two people who have paid their feelings to go back to the past!

The problem is not particularly clear. Is it a routine for you to fall in love, a routine for you to borrow money, or a high-end routine for you to fall in love and then borrow money from you?

Since you used the word routine, it is obvious that you have seen through him and haven't exposed him yet. There are only two possibilities:

1, if you like him, you can wait and see.

2, you try to fight him back, routine.

As a friend of the opposite sex, there are several possibilities for him to treat you in a routine way:

1, he is a sophisticated man, knowing that "the true feelings can't be kept since ancient times, and only routines win people's hearts", so he uses routines to arm his vulnerability, win your sympathy, and achieve the purpose of getting you hooked (both good and bad)

He is a person who is afraid of getting hurt. He was afraid of being too disappointed, so he used routines to hide his heart.

If you are up to no good and want to cheat you, it depends on whether you can succeed.

To sum up, I'll give you some advice. If you have a good impression on him, you might as well play along and give him a step down, and everyone will be happy. If you are disgusted with him, you might as well show your cards directly to save your heart.

Routine? It's basically for a little money. What else can you do? You have what she needs, so people can give up one. Either make a deal and see what the two sides have in exchange. Don't always think about your own business. If interests can be exchanged, then exchange. If you can't say goodbye, don't think how smart you are. There are many smart people in this world.

When we make a choice, we subconsciously do what is best for us. It's just that sometimes we don't know our subconscious

Who to be friends with and how to get along with each other, in fact, we also have standards and trade-offs in our hearts.

If this person's behavior violates your bottom line, I believe you will not accept TA again.

There must be something that can meet your needs if you can still accept it.

What we have to do is to know our own ideas and the criteria for choice.

Don't let emotions bother us.

Routine you what, routine you like her or not. You didn't say.

Can't judge.