Wang Xihua, a "country girl": There are tears behind the scenery, and the 4 1 year-old second marriage director is in the same boat through thick and thin.

In 2003, 33-year-old Wang Xihua and her husband had dinner with friends in a restaurant.

After dinner, my husband went to check out.

After checking out, her husband said to her:

All the friends present looked straight at the couple.

Wang Xihua suddenly felt very embarrassed.

What kind of husband and wife is this? Have a meal, AA system.

It's too obvious in front of outsiders,

The calculation is very accurate, and all figures after the decimal point are still required by Wang Xihua.

However, it is not the first day for her husband to treat her like this.

Compared with her before, Wang Xihua also endured one by one.

And let her completely awake, just because of one thing.

0 1

1996, Wang Xihua got a call from director Wang Rui.

Director Wang Rui invited her to play Mei Duo, the heroine of the TV series Northern Story.

The Tale of the North was produced by Jiang Wen.

Wang Xihua was shocked when he heard that the producer was Jiang Wen.

What does it mean for a girl who just graduated to start filming Jiang Wen's play?

It means that the only way for all actors to become famous can be omitted, and they can directly "step into the sky".

Maybe you will become famous overnight.

At that time, director Wang Rui and the producer came to Wang Xihua.

Producers don't want to use Wang Xihua.

The producer's ideal heroine is Mei Ting.

Mei Ting was still reading Chinese opera.

Chinese opera is strictly managed, and students are not allowed to go out to film during school.

The producer went to the school to talk, and as a result, he went several times in a row, but the school did not let people go.

At this time, the producer may also be very helpless.

He can only follow the director to find Wang Xihua.

When Wang Xihua knew that the heroine was herself, she was very happy and kept smiling.

Because I was happy, I also invited the director and producer to have a meal.

In a small restaurant near people's art.

Wang Xihua had just recovered when they left.

A second later, Wang Xihua began to cry.

She couldn't believe that such a lucky thing would happen to her.

Before long, the crew invited Wang Xihua to join the team and experience life in Hailar.

There, Wang Xihua learned to ride a horse, chop wood and so on, and learned about the lifestyle of the local people.

A few days ago, the whole cast saw her screaming "Hua Qian, Hua Qian".

In the next few days, the whole crew will walk around when they see her.

At first, Wang Xihua wanted to know why everyone stopped greeting me when they saw me.

Until one day, the whole crew leader came to Wang Xihua.

Then the leader said to her:

Wang Xihua doesn't even know what happened.

She repeatedly asked the leader:

Leadership didn't beat around the bush, he told Wang Xihua directly:

Wang Xihua couldn't believe it,

She has been questioning the director:

Leadership:

In a word, let Wang Xihua have nothing to say directly.

She can only pack up and get ready to go home.

It happened to be June 1 when I left.

At that time, Mei Ting had just arrived at the crew, and the crew held a kick-off banquet in the auditorium of hundreds of people in Hailar.

They invited Wang Xihua to attend,

Wang Xihua refused because she felt that she was no longer a member of the cast and was embarrassed to have the opening banquet.

But the leader has repeatedly invited you to come, saying that you will lose face if you don't come.

Having said that, Wang Xihua can't go out.

So, on the day of the opening banquet, Wang Xihua, who had nothing to do with the crew, sat alone.

When the staff introduced the identities of the people present, Wang Xihua bowed his head.

When introducing the heroine, Wang Xihua always felt that she should come forward at this time.

It's a pity that she can only sit in her seat and watch Mei Ting stand up.

Watching others stand up one by one, Wang Xihua's tears swirled in her eyes.

At the end of the day, Wang Xihua squatted under the window to wipe her tears.

She thinks all this is so unfair.

More than 20 years later, Wang Xihua thought of it and felt like crying.

She only left a sentence for the cast:

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Soon after, Wang Xihua received an invitation from Li Shu, director of "Loud Military Songs".

During the audition, the director said that her acting was ok, but her weight didn't meet the requirements of the role.

You need to lose 20 pounds, otherwise the audience can't replace the role.

Wang Xihua knows that the opportunity is hard to come by, so she is working hard to lose weight.

Eat only boiled radish and cabbage every day,

Keep exercising for two hours every day.

In this way, in less than 20 days, Wang Xihua lost more than 20 kilograms.

Wang Xihua thought, "You can't replace me this time."

It's time to join the group soon, but Wang Xihua was told by the director:

Wang Xihua went to ask why.

More importantly, Chen Xiaoyi was more famous than Wang Xihua at that time, and the ratings would be safer.

In this way, Wang Xihua has changed again.

Wang Xihua can't accept one change after another.

She began to wonder if she was really ugly.

In fact, after graduating from the last drama, Wang Xihua was faced with a state of no drama to shoot.

Because directors think Wang Xihua looks "rustic", so few directors will use her.

Seeing that all the students in the class were filming in groups one after another, it was a fire in a few years.

And Wang Xihua is still running from one crew to another, submitting resumes.

I went to the crew to submit my resume several times, and the interview was directly rejected by the director.

Later, Wang Xihua was going to Beijing to take the entrance examination of People's Art, and planned to concentrate on the drama stage.

The actors of Beijing People's Art are very good at acting and the interview is very strict.

Fortunately, Wang Xihua's acting skills were professional enough, so she successfully passed the interview for the human arts.

After working in the art world for a year, Wang Xihua is going to turn his eyes back to the TV drama market.

As a result, I was changed one after another.

So, she began to lose weight crazily and began to pay attention to her manners.

I also went to the beauty salon and had a lot of face-lifting needles.

In order to increase her exposure, she took pictures crazily.

Whether it's the protagonist or not, no matter what the scene is.

When my mind gradually calmed down,

Wang Xihua met her first husband Zhou Jing by chance.

At that time, Wang Xihua and his good sister went to a bar to drink.

Zhou Jing was in the bar that day.

Zhou Jing is very fashionable and has good taste in clothes.

There is charm between gestures.

This charm is exactly what Wang Xihua appreciates.

Wang Xihua took the initiative to talk to Zhou Jing.

Zhou Jing is also very generous.

Naturally, Wang Xihua and I chatted.

After this encounter, Wang Xihua and Zhou Jing met several times in the bar.

On another occasion, Wang Xihua was drunk, and Zhou Jing personally sent Wang Xihua home.

Before long, Wang Xihua fell in love with Zhou Jing.

At that time, Wang Xihua would come to the bar to drink after work, just to meet Zhou Jing.

Wang Xihua is full of Zhou Jing.

Therefore, Wang Xihua will agree to any request made by Zhou Jing in the future.

For example, AA system.

Wang Xihua is so passionate that he is fascinated by Zhou Jing's charm.

When they are in love, every meal that Zhou Jing and Wang Xihua eat is counted separately.

In spite of this, Wang Xihua still wishes to marry Zhou Jing.

After the love period, Wang Xihua gradually saw Zhou Jing.

They don't look like husband and wife at home.

It can be said that they are two roommates who don't like each other.

Roommates share their things with each other.

Wang Xihua and Zhou Jing, the legal couple, are not as kind as sharing roommates.

Zhou Jing wants everything to have AA system.

When it comes to spending money, Zhou Jing always divides the computer by two, making a dime clear.

Wang Xihua drinks an extra glass of water and a bottle of drink, which is not allowed in Kyoto.

After marriage, Wang Xihua has never eaten a meal from Zhou Jing.

I have never eaten the snacks and snacks that Zhou Jing bought.

After all the food purchased was settled by Zhou Jing, Wang Xihua transferred the money to him, and then everyone ate their own food. No one can eat a pack of snacks sent by the other party. If he eats too much, he will pay each other more for a pack of snacks.

Her husband is also very concerned.

I won't let myself care about Wang Xihua anymore.

On the contrary, Wang Xihua has been concerned about Zhou Jing.

Both hot and cold will buy clothes and daily necessities for my husband.

Perhaps, their marriage has been maintained by Wang Xihua.

Wang Xihua tried many times to change the way Zhou Jing treated marriage.

But Zhou Jing's reaction to him was very firm.

Determined not to change.

I don't know when it started. Wang Xihua gradually saw Zhou Jing and the marriage.

Zhou Jing is not avantgarde, but he doesn't love himself at all.

How can people who really love themselves be so "picky" about themselves? Care about everything?

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Later, Wang Xihua received an invitation from a director.

Because he has been changed many times, Wang Xihua dare not be careless this time.

Wang Xihua joined the team from the moment he was informed.

Eat and live with the group every day.

Observe the attitude of the crew to themselves every day to ensure that they will not be changed.

Mencius once said, "You can't have your cake and eat it."

Wang Xihua focused on the cast, so she couldn't focus on her husband.

A few days later, Zhou Jing was dissatisfied with Wang Xihua.

He began to argue with Wang Xihua.

This incident directly became "the last straw to crush the camel."

Wang Xihua finally couldn't bear it, and immediately asked Zhou Jing for a divorce.

Say goodbye to this "in name only" marriage.

After bidding farewell to Zhou Jing, Wang Xihua seemed to be "reborn".

She devoted all her energy to acting and completely changed her humble life.

The play is an inspirational TV play in rural areas.

Wang Xihua will play the role of "Zhang Juxiang".

Although the play is a country play, the cast is all online.

Every supporting role is an old play bone.

Ge Zhijun, Jiang Baoying, Wang Yanmei and so on.

Sun Tao, the leading actor, is very young, but his acting skills are also very good.

Wang Xihua has always been very dedicated.

No matter what role, she will patiently polish it.

When filming the play, Wang Xihua showed the image of hardworking and capable rural people.

She gets up at five o'clock every morning and goes to work until one o'clock in the evening.

In the play, Wang Xihua did all the dirty work of moving bricks and bricks bit by bit. They are all real bricks, not foam props.

At first, she couldn't take that much, but later she added it piece by piece.

Add one brick at a time and one brick at a time, and you can carry a pile in a few days.

In the play, she works as efficiently as men.

It is precisely because there are so many dedicated actors that a good drama made by conscience can be presented to the audience.

At that time, the ratings of this drama were broken 10, and it was very popular.

Wang Xihua, who had been silent for many years, finally became a hit.

It is also very popular with middle-aged and elderly female audiences.

From this time on, Wang Xihua seems to have found his own "destiny" role.

Rural drama seems to suit you better.

Wang Xihua also met his "the only thrill" Shen Hang in rural dramas.

Director Shen Hang often takes part in the shooting of TV series.

In 2009, Shen Hang participated in the recording of Populus euphratica Woman.

When Shen Hang first met Wang Xihua on the set, he called her "Sister".

At that time, Wang Xihua left a bad impression on him.

Obviously, he is about his age, but he just calls himself "sister".

Later, during the filming of the crew, Wang Xihua's impression of Shen Hang changed completely.

She found that Shen Hang was not as annoying as she first thought.

Shen Hang is very talented and responsible.

She gradually eliminated her previous prejudice against Shen Hang.

At this time, she didn't know that Shen Hang was in love with her.

At the wedding reception, Shen Hang summoned up his courage to express his love for Wang Xihua.

He is worried that if he misses this opportunity, he will never see Wang Xihua again.

So he must say it on this day.

Because during the filming, Wang Xihua discovered the bright spot of Shen Hang.

So I readily agreed to Shen Hang's pursuit.

Every time I mention the experience of two people becoming attached, Wang Xihua's face is filled with a happy smile.

However, although Shen Hang is a director, screenwriter and actor, he is not as famous as Wang Xihua.

Every time Wang Xihua and I go out for dinner, Shen Hang feels inferior.

In front of Wang Xihua's aura, he felt that he was simply unknown.

He lives in Wang Xihua even though others suspect him.

All kinds of doubts made Shen Hang feel insecure about this relationship.

At a big banquet, someone asked what is the relationship between Shen Hang and Wang Xihua.

Shen Hang dare not say that he is Wang Xihua's boyfriend.

So he said:

"Wang Xihua and I are ordinary friends."

No sooner had he finished this sentence than Wang Xihua became angry.

"What do you mean just now? Don't you know our relationship? Why are we just ordinary friends? "

Shen Hang also don't know how to think at that time, he goo goo, minced ground to say:

"Everything is changeable. I can't be wrong in saying this. "

A word made Wang Xihua speechless.

She was speechless.

After all this, Wang Xihua doesn't want to get to the bottom of it anymore.

She doesn't want to try to change each other.

In this way, we separated from each other tacitly, and no one contacted anyone again.

Wang Xihua knew that Shen Hang and she met by chance after all, and she just showed her love alone in the desert.

Wang Xihua rural TV series is getting better and better.

The status of "a sister of rural drama" is becoming more and more stable.

After fame and fortune, Wang Xihua began to devote part of his energy to his life.

In the past, she was so absorbed in her work that she had no time to think about herself.

Every time I leave the spotlight, celebrity aura and applause, I will go home alone with Wang Xihua.

Wang Xihua is tired of living alone. She longs for a shoulder to lean on.

A year later, Wang Xihua took a few days off, during which Wang Xihua went home to visit his parents.

She told her parents that it was difficult for her to give up Shen Hang.

Hearing this, Wang Xihua's father encouraged her:

"You have to fight for what you like. Maybe he can't forget you? "

Encouraged by his father, Wang Xihua got up the courage to call Shen Hang's mother.

Shen Hang's mother is also a fan of Wang Xihua. She also heard Wang Xihua's worries and worries on the phone.

Shen Hang's mother patted her chest and promised:

There is a future mother-in-law this sentence, is Wang Xihua ate a reassurance.

She immediately ran to 1000 kilometers away and found Shen Hang.

It's been four months since they last separated.

Four months later, the two met for the first time.

When standing in front of each other, no one mentioned anything unhappy before.

Hug each other as soon as they meet.

All thoughts and complaints are resolved at this moment.

04

More than 9 marriage certificates have become the only witness of their marriage.

The diseases accumulated in Wang Xihua's early years broke out in an all-round way after marriage.

The body was once fat to 200 Jin.

Because she was busy filming in her early years, she always neglected her health problems.

And it's hard to get pregnant.

Shen Hang didn't abandon her. Knowing that she is ill, I will take care of her more carefully and thoughtfully.

I also personally learned to cook a fat-reducing meal for Wang Xihua.

Run and exercise with Wang Xihua every day.

Also patiently enlighten Wang Xihua to prevent her from becoming depressed.

Under the careful care of Shen Hang,

Wang Xihua is getting better and better.

Two people in their forties finally realized the happiness of being parents.

In the meantime, my mother-in-law has been taking good care of Wang Xihua.

After giving birth, Wang Xihua also took her mother-in-law to buy clothes and go shopping.

Give my mother-in-law pocket money every month.

Wang Xihua gets along well with her mother-in-law, and the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not exist in their family.

After the baby was born, Wang Xihua was no longer as enterprising as before.

She gradually turned her eyes back to her family.

As the children grow up, Wang Xihua's play road becomes narrower and narrower.

But with Shen Hang, there is no shortage of filming in Wang Xihua.

Wang Xihua is filming in her husband's crew, and there will be loving interactions from time to time, which often makes the crew envious.

Husband and wife often find fault with each other on the set.

Because Shen Hang is strict with directing plays,

Wang Xihua scenes are often cut out.

Wang Xihua said to the staff:

"I will never be an actor again!"

Two people quarreled on the set and took care of each other.

Married 10 years, no one has ever had an affair.

Who can not envy such feelings?

Wang Xihua's career in the first half of his life was quite bumpy and chaotic.

Fortunately, her acting skills have been very good, and she has been patiently learning acting skills.

Co-actors are also very good, such as Liu Lili and Pu Cunxin in Ma Xiaomin.

"Sharpen a sword in ten years" has been verified in her.

After the age of 30, Wang Xihua finally reached the peak of his career.

The first marriage didn't go well, but at the age of 40, she finally "loyal to her wife" and married a husband who really loved herself.

Wang Xihua, 52, has both children and lovers, and her life is enough.