Xiaoshan couples' premarital chat records are exposed, why do they attract attention?

The exposure of Xiaoshan couples' pre-marital chat records shows the contradiction between marriage and reality, and the unreasonable demands of the woman have aroused social concern.

Sensitive housing issues

Whether it is childhood friends or blind date between men and women, the house is an unavoidable topic on the road to marriage.

In Ode to Joy 2, Mei Sheng, a fan of Rulu, and Wang Baichuan, her boyfriend, tossed for dozens of episodes and finally broke up. There are many problems between them, but the last straw to crush this relationship is the house.

"It may be difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong. In this society, it is quite realistic and helpless. A house is a comfortable place for two people to get married. Without a house, there is no place to live. The house has been shared by both husband and wife since ancient times, and the name of the house is also a sensitive issue.

Women ask too much.

The woman not only wants to buy a house in full, but also proposes a bride price of 6.5438+0.8 million. Buying a house in full has already spent the savings of the man's parents. For ordinary people, buying a house in full is the pressure of every family. It's already good for the man's parents to make a down payment. In the future, there will be no problem for the couple to work together or the three families to pay together. All family members! Or if you can't afford a big one, buy a smaller one. Why do you have to compare with others? To put it bluntly, love still lost to reality! I think there is nothing wrong with the man, even if the loan is not paid by the woman, the name is still written for two people! You should try to live your own life ... those are your parents', not your own, and you shouldn't make such demands on your parents. It is best to have it, but you don't have to force it.

The contradiction between marriage and reality.

Marriage is a beautiful crystallization of love, but the reality is cruel. The reality is buying a house, financial resources, a car and trivial housework.

Xiaoshan couples' premarital chat records were exposed, which attracted attention. I think it's because the woman's demands are too high, which involves sensitive practical problems and highlights the contradiction between marriage and reality.