A letter to a rebellious son, an excellent letter to a rebellious son.

This is my third letter to you. This is also a letter that I have been wanting to write for more than a year, but I have been afraid to write. A lot of words, since you left us for boarding in Dong Pei, but you feel nothing to say. Maybe you are worried that you are tired of your mother's nagging, or maybe you can't understand her innermost thoughts and laugh it off. So, I seem to have been waiting for the opportunity. Teacher Zhou gave my mother this opportunity today, so I wrote this letter.

3. There is a passage on the title page of Long Yingtai's watch: "The so-called scene of father, daughter and mother just means that the fate between you and him in this life is to watch his back drift away. You stand at this end of the path and watch him disappear at the corner of the path. He tells you silently with his back: Don't chase. " This passage deeply touched me, because it is also a portrayal of our mother and son. You must not know that every time I send you away, my mother has endless feelings of loss and concern. But I comfort myself again and again that parents love their children for the sake of separation, and I must let go to express our love for you.

In fact, mothers have the same heart. The same disappointment and worry. As a result, every time I come back, every time I call, I have all kinds of detailed reminders and nagging. In fact, you have done a good job since you left us. You quickly adapted to the new life at school and got along well with your teachers and classmates. But mom also sees that you have lost weight, and sometimes you are very tired. When I ask you how you are, you always say it's fine. But mom is still worried that you don't eat breakfast seriously, sleep badly, and your body can't bear the rhythm of your study and life. In adolescence, you are used to simply replying to your mother's concern. Mom can only do nothing. Mom wants to tell you that if life is a tree, health is the root, and the root will flourish. Without a healthy body, all good and beautiful things will be floating clouds. Mom hopes you can take good care of yourself, make your body great, and be able to accept the baptism of various years.

I once read one of your compositions, which was about various contradictions between my mother and us. Indeed, we have many different ideas. I always look at you like a person who has been there and ask you. I hope you will do that. I often think of various ways to help you so-called, taking it for granted that this will make you take fewer detours and become smoother and better. Perhaps, these have become the causes of our conflict. After each friction, my mother always asks herself what went wrong. Mom is constantly looking for ways to get along with you better, hoping to be your friend and respect, understand and appreciate your ideas. Mom also thinks that in recent days, you are also learning to be considerate and tolerant of your mother. We have more communication, the depth of some of your thoughts and your innovative thinking have amazed me, which is beyond my mother's reach. We watched The Master of Lethal Poison together and talked about the story of the Romans. Thank you for your understanding and views on the work. When talking to you about this, I understand that my children have grown up, and you have the ability to think independently and have free thoughts. I hope these can become your wings for growth and help you to swim in the higher and wider sky.

6. I saw an article by Bi Shumin yesterday entitled "The most important thing in your life is to make yourself happy". This sentence is also what I want to say to you. Although, the feelings in this article may not be deeply understood by your 14-year-old experience. However, it does contain the wisdom of life. Life is not just about running towards the goal, the most important thing is to learn to enjoy happiness in the process of active efforts. Bi Shumin also wrote an article called "Remind Happiness" to let people learn to know and experience happiness. She said, "Happiness is mostly simple. It won't flash red light at high altitude like a signal flare. It is wrapped in a natural coat and wraps us warmly. " I hope that in the long life, you can always remember to enjoy even the smallest happiness in your ordinary daily life. Feeling happy with your heart will let you know that all the bumps and setbacks are temporary, make you warm, sunny and strong, and let you know that this is a gift of life and know how to be grateful. I also want to tell you that the fate of our mother and son in this life makes my mother deeply happy, because my mother has a smart and spiritual child like you, and my mother believes that this is also a gift from God. I hope that in the long years to come, we can enjoy more happiness together.

7. Dear son, I don't know if you can fully understand the contents of this letter. But I will cherish this letter for you, because it is what my mother thinks and understands when you and I grow up together, and it also carries my mother's deep love for you. I hope that one day, you can be proud of having such a mother, which is what my mother wants to do.