Have you received group New Year greeting messages during the past few days?

Have you ever received group New Year messages during the New Year?

However, what I am talking about is that the New Year greeting messages sent to individual groups do not include those in the group.

Originally, the Spring Festival is supposed to be a time for family reunions and relaxation, but many people are exhausted on New Year’s Eve. Just replying to the New Year greeting messages sent by others makes my hands cramp again.

If you receive this kind of extremely obvious and cookie-cutter mass message, do you reply or not?

You said, "This is not easy, so why don't you reply!"

Perhaps you are also adopting the posture of "never reply to group New Year greetings messages", but the thing is Is it that simple?

If you think about it from the perspective of the text message sender, there are also reasons for sending New Year greeting messages in groups.

First, convey joy.

Some people do not think that New Year greeting messages must be directed to a certain person. They just celebrate the arrival of the festival in this way, for good luck, and to exaggerate the festive atmosphere. Purely Express personal happiness, pleasure, and uplifting emotions.

Sometimes, you may see the popular information that is very interesting (for example, it is spliced ??with pictures), and you can’t help but share it with your friends, so you forward it in the form of a group message to let others enjoy it. happy.

Second, increase your presence.

It is not ruled out that some people send New Year greetings messages purely for the purpose of catching the bubbles and showing off their appearance, just like someone who has been underwater for a long time and suddenly puts his head out of the water, and then dives back again.

This message is like saying: "Hey! Brothers and sisters, I'm still thinking about you. I'm here. If you need anything, please come to me!" or: "I am so-and-so. I still have your mobile phone number or WeChat account. Let’s chat when you have time!”

Third, don’t be special.

There are other people, because they are surrounded by this kind of group messaging atmosphere, so they come and go like this, "Others are doing it anyway, so you are right to follow", "I can't be left behind, no. I have this mentality of being special, so I also send group text messages to join in the fun.

As a result, some friends joked that during the Spring Festival this year, they learned the real names of many people on WeChat, because the other people sent group messages using their real names and blessings.

Of course, among the people who send New Year's greetings messages to individuals, a large number of boss-level figures cannot be excluded. Because there are too many people in charge, I didn't send messages, for fear that my subordinates would say, "This old guy usually lets me I'm working, but I don't come to express condolences at critical moments." When sending messages, if you don't send them in groups, you may press the phone buttons until they are rotten, so you can only "emphasize form over content."

This is also quite difficult. Just like at a dinner party, the person giving the toast does not necessarily want to do the toast, and the person receiving the drink does not particularly want to accept it, but in that atmosphere , they can collide with each other and create a drinking show of "blissful brows, mingling glasses, and eloquent words", which is just for the occasion.

In the end, it is the intermediary platform that sends these messages that benefits, making a lot of money and smiling happily.

But the hard part is for those of us who accepted the group New Year greeting messages. Anyway, at this time, I was quite hesitant and depressed. Tiredness of the hands is secondary, tiredness of the heart is the real struggle.