Why doesn’t the girl reply to my messages?

First, she is really busy with something.

Whether it is a man or a woman, there is not only love in life, but also busy times. You can open your chat history and carefully observe what time you chatted before, and what time it was when she didn't reply to your message recently.

You can first check the timing of the chat based on your understanding of her or asking your friends about the girl’s work situation. Generally speaking, everyone is busier during the day on weekdays. If the girl you like is someone who works very hard and is unwilling to fish, she will most likely not reply to your messages.

At what time and how is it appropriate to send a message?

The first suggestion is to take a lunch break on working days, or about half an hour after get off work. Right, we include commuting time, and try to avoid time periods when it is inconvenient for girls to reply to messages. Usually a girl has returned home about half an hour to an hour after get off work, or has arrived at another occasion. She is very likely to glance at her phone to avoid missing important messages.

In addition, within one or two hours after dinner, it is also a more suitable time to communicate. Usually around 7pm to 9pm. From a psychological point of view, people are more emotional at night. If you go to chat with her at this time, first of all, she will be able to reply to you in terms of time. Secondly, the content of your chat will also be some emotional topics. Easier to collide with feelings.

Here is a small routine for inviting friends around dinner.

(I made an appointment tonight, deliberately asked before dinner)

Male: I’ll bet you a dinner, I guess we will eat the same thing tonight

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Female: But I haven’t thought about it yet

Male: Yes, I haven’t thought about it either, because I’m waiting for you to finish your work and treat me to food

Part 2 , the topic itself is boring, causing girls to lose interest in us

We say that relationships between men and women can be roughly divided into just acquaintances, impressions, friendships, ambiguous partners and lovers. The boy and girl in the case have met once before, and they are most likely in the stage of "just getting to know each other" to "having an impression".

When the girl loses contact later, even the remaining impression may disappear. At this time, it is particularly important whether your chat topic and opening remarks are interesting enough. There are several criteria for a good opening statement:

1. It can effectively increase the response rate of girls;

2. Girls are in a good emotional state when replying;

3. Even if the girl does not reply this time, she will not feel embarrassed next time because of the presence of this sentence in the chat history, which will affect your relationship.

Such as "are you there" is a very bad conversation starter, because it will give people the feeling that "you have something to ask her for help, but you don't say what it is", which makes her feel Very bottomless.

Unless you have a particularly good relationship, the threshold for replying is relatively high for people with average relationships; and when the other party replies to you, there will be no obvious positive emotional feedback; and if you say this sentence If the girl doesn't see it in time, even if she wants to chat with you next time, once she sees that your last chat stopped at your "are you there", she will simply choose not to reply due to the guilt of not replying in time.

Here is a simple and easy-to-use "curiosity starter" to share with your friends. Girls will basically reply when they see it, and they will reply to you out of curiosity. Even if she doesn't reply in time, she will treat this sentence as a word of concern and will not affect your next chat.

This sentence is to send to girls: "Go to work and don't play with your mobile phone."

Believe me, if a girl sees this message, she will definitely correct her mistakes. Under the influence, the next time I reply to you is "Ah, I'm not playing with my phone", or "How do you know I'm playing with my phone?"

To sum up, when a girl doesn't reply to your message, we should not be anxious first. She is most likely busy with something. If you want to effectively improve her response rate, you can make some optimizations in time and make some adjustments in the chat content.

The most important thing is to master certain chat methods and be able to handle subsequent conversations.