How to treat the ambiguous relationship between teachers and students?

Don’t regard it as a scourge, we should look at it from the following aspects:

1. The contact is relatively close. Teachers have to devote nearly fifty years of their lives to schools, and teachers, as messengers of knowledge, because certain characteristics will make students fall in love. I communicated with a classmate and learned that during class today, she felt that the teacher was particularly hard-working. He had a busy day of classes and meetings and so on. She felt an urge to take care of him. In fact, most of the reasons She was still attracted by his professional talents and personality. He was really a very good teacher.

The ambiguity between students and teachers does not necessarily mean they like each other, but a strong respect.

2. Age stage. Although I am a teacher, when it comes to the issue of teacher-student ambiguity, it is basically at the high school level and above. Education is developing and the overall quality of the younger generation is getting stronger and stronger. Therefore, there are many young lecturers who have just graduated from high schools and universities. In terms of age, There is not much difference with students, so age is not the main issue, but more of a limitation of identity.

3. Social attitudes. Although you will be criticized by the school and discussed by others, love does not distinguish between genders, why should it be between teachers and students? You cannot control things like feelings. Since you will be attracted by the advantages of the other person, then be brave, and this is A very normal and common thing, I don't like or criticize, I will only look at it with an equal eye.

Speak out your love and don’t miss the right person because of external factors. Society is also in an increasingly open environment.

4. The special nature of the profession. Take our teacher as an example. He had a flash marriage with a math teacher in our school some time ago. We all know in our hearts that there is no love between them. They are just getting married for the sake of getting married when they are old enough. The special profession of teachers has led to the narrowing and limitation of their marriage and love circles. It seems that the ambiguity between teachers and students is understandable.