There is a man harassing me, and I don't like him. How can I refuse him?

If you really don't like it, just refuse it. If you can't refuse it, you will be treated coldly.

If you don't like someone, you must make it clear and have a clear attitude. I have a friend who always likes to keep good relations with people she doesn't like, and it is not easy to refuse others. She always likes to tell each other that it is best to be friends, so she is always troubled by such emotional things, because if a girl refuses decisively, it seems that there is still hope for the boy. Especially for boys who like to harass girls, they must be severely rejected, otherwise it is likely to make things very serious.

You can say it politely when you refuse, but your attitude must be clear. If you really can't do it, you will get the cold shoulder. I remember meeting a boy before, whom I met on a blind date. After I met him, I made it clear that I didn't think we were suitable, so I shouldn't waste each other's time, but he would still send messages to harass me and even ask me to go home once. I didn't say anything extreme, but I never replied to any of his messages. Even if he came to me, I avoided him. A few weeks later, he never bothered me again.

In short, there are many forms of refusal, as long as you make your thoughts clear and don't be ambiguous. Making love with people you don't like is actually a waste of each other's time. If that person is an extreme person, you can say it gently, but you must show your attitude. If the other person has been harassing you or even making extreme moves, you can also ask others for help. In short, don't confuse the relationship between the two sides. In fact, there are other ways besides euphemism and cold treatment. For example, if you are a person who is not good at rejecting others, you can tell them through their mouths that you have no thoughts on them. Or send a related dynamic. If the other person can understand it, it should be interesting to stop harassing you.