What should you say to your college son on his 20th birthday?

1. Happy birthday, baby! Twenty years ago today, the spring breeze blew and the sun shone brightly, and we brought you into this world; today twenty years later, you have grown from a babbling child to a promising young man. The spring scenery remains the same, and things have changed and people have changed. , in the blink of an eye, you grow up quietly, and we also grow old slowly.

2. These twenty years are the beginning of your life and a turning point for us. Because of your arrival, we have had so much happiness and joy as parents. You are well-behaved, sensible, kind and restrained. You have worked hard all the way from elementary school, junior high school, high school to university. You are our pride and our concern. It is our hope!

3. Son, 20 is an embarrassing age. Others will not treat you as a child. Your mistakes will no longer be tolerated. You have the responsibility to bear your own mistakes. Don’t you like it? Smiling when dealing with people and things is something you must learn to be tactful in life. Thank everyone who has hurt you, and then wave to them after your 20th birthday and say I don’t hate you anymore, you have grown up. Interpersonal communication is always a two-way law of courtesy and reciprocity. No one is obligated to be nice to you. Turn around faster than tears. This is a must.

When you are 20 years old, you must learn to bear the sadness, and always say to yourself: I can also be brave. I must do what I promise myself, be ruthless when I should be ruthless to myself, and avoid being indecisive, The lotus root is broken and the silk is connected. Being soft on yourself won't accomplish much. At the age of 20, you must learn to face reality and not be immersed in daydreams all day long. The age of 20 is a new beginning in your life. Always prepare a smile for yourself and tell yourself, I can do it! You’re not young anymore, let’s work hard!

4. Son, you spend your birthday every year during holidays and with your parents. Mom has always wanted to prepare a birthday gift for you, but when you grow up, You look dismissive of your birthday gifts. Mom doesn’t know what else to buy you. You rarely make requests to your mom, so mom will give you this birthday message.

5. Son, you are studying in a foreign country, and you may often feel lonely. Mom believes that you are a strong child. Now that you are one year older, you will become more mature. Take good care of yourself, don't stay up late often, handle your studies well, treat everything you encounter rationally, and always figure out what your first priority is. Remember, there is no free lunch in the world. Faith, persistence, and hard work are all... It is still your magic weapon to win, and a greater challenge is yet to come. Son, are you ready?