Why did my mother-in-law write me a letter before she left, saying: After I leave, you will divorce him?

1 He is only forty years old, and it is different after a long business trip

Xiao Lei and I have been married for ten years and have a daughter. My mother-in-law and I have also been criticized for ten consecutive years. As the "good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law star" of the community.

Xiao Lei recognized my efforts both at home and outside. In front of others and behind others, I am also very lucky to be able to manage my marriage in a harmonious way.

However, that day, after Xiao Lei came back from a business trip in Shanghai, everything changed.

On that day, I specially made six dishes and one soup, and together with my mother-in-law and daughter, I prepared a meal for Xiao Lei.

Late at night, I eagerly wanted to be intimate with Xiao Lei, but before we got into the topic, he backed away in a hurry.

I am very confused. Xiao Lei’s business trip this time is different from his previous short-term business trips. He stayed in Shanghai for more than a month and changed after coming back. Did he steal wild flowers?

Xiao Lei shouted that he was wronged and said: "Even if I have the courage, why don't you and my mother beat me to death if you and my mother find out?! Besides, I have a prosperous husband like you who knows how to take care of the house." How can I dare to commit suicide when my daughter-in-law is satisfied?”

I thought about it and gave up my doubts.

But after that day, the frequency of doing that with Xiao Lei dropped from two or three times a week to two or three times a month. He was no longer as delicate and considerate as before.

For a man who is only forty years old, life and work pressures are not heavy. Why is it different after a long-term business trip?

I paid close attention and found that Xiao Lei went to a high-end hotel not far from the company to dine at noon every day, and the person dining with him was a short-haired woman in her thirties. The short-haired woman always appeared half an hour after Xiao Lei arrived. After the two of them finished their meal, they went into a hotel suite together and stayed there for about two hours, and then they came out half an hour apart.

I was so angry that I wanted to catch someone on the spot, but I was stopped by my best friend who was with me.

My best friend said: "He's like this, I'm sure I can't keep him! Now you have to pretend you don't know about this. The most important thing is to seize the money first, to prevent both people and money from being lost!" ”

When I heard it seemed reasonable, I suppressed my resentment and went home.

2 He said he wants to divorce you, but he hasn’t decided how to say it yet.

In fact, two ordinary salarymen have to eat, drink, take care of themselves, and raise children. I have a house and a car, and I don’t have much property. I only have a deposit of 150,000 yuan. I also have a house that has just paid off the loan and a domestic luxury automatic car.

They are all property on the surface, and everyone will know if they touch it.

What I am confused about is: Xiao Lei has handed over all his salary in the past few years after his marriage. He is also very frugal in food and clothing, with only 500 yuan in his pocket. But why is it that after a long business trip, she has plenty of money in her pocket and that she goes in and out of high-end hotels every day? Maybe women with short hair post it?

I couldn’t think of an answer, so I thought I’d still find a way to transfer the 150,000 yuan I had control over.

However, before I could figure out how to take action, one night two days later, my mother-in-law suddenly said to me: "Xiao Lei has a woman outside, and we must work together to save him!"

I was surprised and thought, how did my mother-in-law know? Although she and I have gotten along harmoniously over the years, she and Xiao Lei are both mother and son, so why are they willing to bend their elbows outward?

Before I opened my mouth, my mother-in-law sighed and said: "After Xiao Lei came back from his business trip in Shanghai, I felt something was wrong with him! The day before yesterday, I privately questioned him for a long time before he admitted it! That woman is his A middle school classmate named Qin Yun was in the clothing business, and I heard she was very rich! She went to Shanghai for a trip, and after Xiao Lei traveled with her for five days, they got together!"

Mother-in-law Yue! He became more and more angry: "Qin Yun has been divorced for two years, and her son has divorced her. Xiao Lei said that every time he and Qin Yun had a tryst, Qin Yun paid for it. He also liked Qin Yun very much and wanted to divorce you, but he hasn't divorced you yet. Think about how to speak. I scolded him! So what if Qin Yun is rich? You are a hundred times better than her!"

My mother-in-law said again: "When Xiao Lei was eight years old, After I died of illness, a man pursued me, but I didn’t want to get married again. I worked in the workplace during the day and set up a street stall in the square to support him in college, graduate school, and master’s degree. I didn’t want him to do such a shameful thing as long as you refused! If you agree to the divorce, he will not get divorced. I am on your side!”

I almost cried when I heard this, and I thought that my mother-in-law was reasonable. As for Xiao Lei, ten years of love between husband and wife is no match for five days of romantic love, which makes me unwilling to lose this battle easily.

Since my mother-in-law and I share the same hatred, that’s even better!

3 I subconsciously turned to look at my mother-in-law

That night, as soon as Xiao Lei got home from get off work, he was overwhelmed by the aura of my mother-in-law and I interrogating him together. Not only did he confess Regarding the matter with Qin Yun, I also swore to completely cut off ties with her. Only then did my mother-in-law put away the clothes drying pole, and I wiped away my tears. I was lucky to meet a sensible mother-in-law. I thought that after this battle, I would have a mother-in-law. Now, marriage should be war-free.

However, things in the world are unpredictable, and joys and sorrows come.

One morning two months later, I went for a morning run as usual, and my mother-in-law was making breakfast.

An hour later, when I returned from my morning run, I was shocked to see my mother-in-law unconscious on the kitchen floor. I was so frightened that I yelled, and then I woke up Xiao Lei, who was still sleeping soundly.

Two days later, my mother-in-law regained consciousness in the hospital.

Hemiplegia caused by stroke, and advanced breast cancer. Some drugs are not covered by reimbursement. My mother-in-law's illness was sudden and severe, and the daily treatment costs were astonishing!

After Xiao Lei and I took turns serving day and night for two months, I finally couldn’t bear it and fell ill, so Xiao Lei and I discussed hiring a caregiver for my mother-in-law. Xiao Lei hesitated for a long time before agreeing, but He said he was worried that the nursing staff would not take good care of her, so he stayed overnight in the hospital to attend to his mother from time to time.

Then, I discovered that from then on, my mother-in-law gradually became cold to me. I thought, maybe she complained that I couldn't take care of her at the critical moment? But I couldn't ask, so I had to pretend that I didn't know.

Four months later, all of Xiao Lei’s and I’s savings went into the hospital, and we still owed 50,000 yuan in foreign debt.

Xiao Lei became even more depressed and spent more nights in the hospital.

One Sunday afternoon, I went to the hospital to visit my mother-in-law.

Xiao Lei has not returned home since arriving at the hospital last Friday night. When he saw me, he asked: "Why did you come by yourself? Where is your daughter?"

I asked Xiao Lei I pulled her aside and said that the last time I brought my daughter to the hospital, she said she was a little scared, so I didn't bring her and asked my mother to help take care of her. I also said that since he hasn’t been home for two days, he should leave it to the caregiver and we can go home together later.

Xiao Lei said: "I want to sell my house to raise money for my mother's medical expenses, but I really can't borrow the money."

I was stunned and asked him: "Then where should we live? Moreover, Mom's illness is a bottomless pit, and selling the house is just a drop in the bucket..."

Before he finished speaking, Xiao Lei became angry: "My mom is so kind to you! So what if it's a drop in the bucket? Save my mother, you can sell me!"

I was shocked and thought, what would my mother-in-law think if she heard Xiao Lei yelling so loudly? !

I subconsciously turned my head and looked at my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law was lying on the hospital bed, looking at me coldly for about ten seconds, then turned her head and closed her eyes.

I felt cold and wanted to explain, but after thinking about it, I couldn’t.

4 The mother-in-law suddenly interrupted: My disease cannot be cured

That night, Xiao Lei still stayed in the hospital to stay with him.

I tossed and turned for most of the night, and went to the hospital again early the next morning.

My mother-in-law was lying on the hospital bed staring at the ceiling in a daze, the nurse was dozing off, and Xiao Lei was nowhere to be seen.

I gritted my teeth and said to my mother-in-law: "Mom, I know you must have heard me and Xiao Lei discussing selling the house yesterday. I was really selfish and only thought about myself. I'm sorry. But don't worry. , I will not leave you alone no matter what! When I see Xiao Lei later, I will go to the agency with him to see if we can sell the house as soon as possible..."

Mother-in-law Suddenly interjected: "My disease cannot be cured! Don't sell the house, keep it for yourself! If you listen to him and sell the house, I will never be blind even to death!"

I was momentarily confused. E Ran, just when he didn't know how to respond, suddenly felt like there were a pair of eyes behind him. He turned around and saw that it was Xiao Lei.

With a dark look on his face, Xiao Lei put the breakfast he was carrying on the bedside table without even looking at me.

At that moment, I felt that there was a distance between me and Xiao Lei, and there would never be any way to get closer.

5 I know you are suffering, and I also know that I will not live long.

Half a month later, my mother-in-law left.

My mother-in-law left late at night.

When I rushed to the hospital, I heard Xiao Lei crying from afar.

My heart ached so much, but strangely I didn’t shed a single tear.

However, when I was packing up my mother-in-law’s belongings and saw a letter she left me, tears suddenly fell down.

The letter from my mother-in-law was written on a piece of A4 printing paper. She probably asked the doctor or nurse for the printing paper. The letter was very short, and a few words may have been written incorrectly, as they were drawn into small black circles.

My mother-in-law wrote in the letter: "Xiao An, the luckiest thing in my life is probably having a daughter-in-law like you. I know you are suffering, and I also know that you will not live long, so don't I blame myself for not selling the house to save me. After I leave, if you feel that you can't survive, just divorce, but you have to let him pay off the money he owed during my treatment. I think it's for the sake of my daughter. , Xiao Lei will not compete with you for the house."

I burst into tears while watching.

Yes, just two months after my mother-in-law was hospitalized, I discovered that Xiao Lei and Qin Yun had not broken off their relationship at all. Xiao Lei used my time in the hospital to take care of my mother-in-law at night to have a tryst with Qin Yun. . Under internal and external difficulties, I finally couldn't bear it anymore and fell ill, and decided not to go to the hospital to wait on my mother-in-law.

When Xiao Lei used the excuse of raising medical expenses for his mother-in-law to sell the house, I understood that he was planning to divorce me after her mother-in-law left, so I did not agree at first. But I changed my mind after tossing and turning all night, because I thought that my mother-in-law was indeed very good to me. If I didn’t try my best to keep her for a little longer at this critical moment, I would have uneasy conscience for the rest of my life, right? !

One month after her mother-in-law left, Xiao Lei filed for divorce.

I say divorce is okay, but you need to read this letter from your mother first.

After Xiao Lei read it, he was silent for a long time and then said: "I will pay off the debt I incurred when my mother was ill. I can also leave the house to you, but I have to write my daughter's name. Do it. After all this, we still have to get divorced, because if we divorce earlier, I will have more money to save my mother, and my mother will live longer."

I burst into tears.

In the past, I thought I could control the rhythm of marriage and manage it well, but I forgot that people’s hearts will always change, and everyone’s marriage must have a lot of uncertainties and changes, even if No matter how much wisdom and ability you have, you can only take one step at a time in the face of the changes in people's hearts.

In this marriage, I think the only thing I am lucky about is that I can meet a woman like my mother-in-law.