The characteristics of two people's unrequited love (what is the reason for their unrequited love but indifference to each other)

Most people have the courage to express their affection for each other when they meet someone they like, but some people obviously like each other, and even think that they have a crush on themselves, but they are indifferent to each other, and then gradually let the other side become more and more indifferent to themselves psychologically. Why?

In fact, there are only five reasons why they have a crush on each other but are very cold:

First, both of them are introverts and are not good at expressing themselves in life. In their feelings, their behavior is even weirder.

Clearly secretly in love with each other, but also feel that the other person has a good impression on himself, but always shows the opposite behavior, giving the impression that he doesn't love a person, but hates a person, but in his heart, he may be enthusiastic, maybe his love for each other has almost burned his whole soul, but he doesn't know how to express it, so he simply can only take a cold way to deal with it.

Second, jealousy psychology Two people obviously secretly love each other, but before they know each other's feelings, they have found that there is another opposite sex around each other, and the relationship is particularly good. Then, because of jealousy, they will be unusually cold in front of their crush and try to attract each other's attention.

In fact, this situation shows that between two people, the other is more important.

After all, one doesn't envy others for no reason. To put it bluntly, there is a ghost in his heart, and this behavior will be reflected to others; In fact, I hope that the other party will have less contact with the opposite sex.

Third, taking too many measures for a long time will inevitably lead to fatigue. Although both parties know that they have feelings for each other, and one party has tried to take the initiative, the result of the initiative is that the other party is neither too hot nor too cold, and he has not received a reply from the other party for a long time. This kind of secret love is likely to deteriorate, and even make the other party feel that their feelings are wrong, and then slowly become cold.

Fourth, not everyone wants to fall in love. Some people may have been hurt, so even if they find that the person they secretly love has a crush on themselves, they will inevitably hesitate, afraid of being hurt again, and feel that it is much simpler to have a unilateral crush than love, and then slowly give each other a cold shoulder, so that the other person will gradually disappear and become cold.

5. The feeling of infatuation with unrequited love Some people are infatuated with the feeling of unrequited love for psychological reasons, because they think unrequited love is simple and mysterious. They are afraid that when they are really together, the person they secretly love in front of them is different from what they think. So choose indifference.

In fact, love is really simple, there is no need to hate it, and many things in life need to be tried. If you don't express your affection, how do you know what will happen next? How do you know it's not a happy future when you pierce this paper?

Therefore, the person who secretly loves each other, bravely express it and let the other person know your thoughts. In the world of love, routines are not a long-term solution after all. Only by truly releasing their own values can we attract girls, so that the determined relationship is truly dry. In fact, I have read a book on how to pick up girls before ~ Learning the complete works of Lao Wang, basically reading it when you have time, and then finding a girl to practice in a strange place. There are more than 100 sisters who have been going back and forth. Now that I am married, I can't wave like this. If you have any brothers who have taken off the bill, I suggest you take a look, go to the online ferry to find it, learn the complete works of Lao Wang, and apply what you have learned. It is really a matter of minutes to take off the bill.