A kind message to a cruel society. "

Cai Kangyong said this in Kang Yong, sending a kind message to a cruel society:

"/kloc-When I was 0/5 years old, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. At the age of 18, when you meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming, you have to say' I won't'.

18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, there is a great job that requires English, so you have to say' I can't'.

The more troublesome and lazy you are in your early life, the more likely you are to miss people and things that interest you and the new scenery that follows. "

That's true.

Have you and I ever seen hard-working people make a mess of their lives? !

Many years ago, the Canadian government launched a welfare program, so as long as eligible low-income families can get a free education welfare fund of 2000 yuan.

Economists boldly predict that the collection rate of this money should be as high as 100%.

But when the final result came out, everyone was surprised.

In the first year of the plan, the receiving rate of this benefit was only 16%.

In fact, if you want to receive this welfare fund, the requirements are not strict and the procedures are not complicated.

Applicants only need to go to the designated bank, go through the formalities and re-open an account.

Even with such a simple condition, 84% people still don't apply.

The reason may be unexpected: because most low-income families in Canada live far away from designated banks!

Those members of low-income families would rather do odd jobs than spend a few dollars on a bus and go all the way to the bank to open an account.

Even if the money given by the government can cover their monthly income and even change their children's education, they are still indifferent.

It was not others who stopped them from taking the first step, but their fear of trouble in their bones. Finally, they gave up the education fund.

Many times, we are complaining about social contradictions, especially the contradiction between the rich and the poor.

The biggest difference between the poor and the rich lies not in wealth, but in the mode of thinking.

Some people can make a comeback even if they are in trouble for a while; Some people, even if they are smooth sailing, will eventually become mediocre.

In this life, the more people are afraid of trouble, the easier it is to find trouble.

In that case, why not challenge those things that make you uncomfortable and afraid?

When you are fearless in life, what can stop you from continuing to break through?

Director Chen Xiaoqing once told such a story.

He has a friend who has been running a restaurant for more than ten years and his business has been very good.

Every day, many people come to line up for dinner.

Once, he was curious and asked his friends how they managed to keep their business booming for so many years without marketing and promotion. What's the secret of opening a restaurant?

Without waiting for a friend to speak, the proprietress snapped: "As long as you go to the vegetable market to pick vegetables at 6 o'clock every day, 12 will leave, and you can persist for more than ten years."

It takes six hours to go to the vegetable market at six o'clock every day, and it takes more than ten years to pick vegetables. It's hard to think that business is bad.

When others bargain for cost control and choose home delivery for trouble, it is neither too much trouble nor too far to choose dishes by themselves.

For ordinary people, if you want to shine, you have to persevere for a long time.

What others are afraid of often hides your chance to cross classes.

Many things in life are worth doing because they are troublesome.

Your value is not to become a standard product on the assembly line, but to try something that others can't do, thus generating value.

The more troublesome things are, the easier it is to become your moat and make yourself irreplaceable.

On the contrary, if everyone is not afraid of trouble, the competition will be really fierce.

A good book on the spot reading program once recommended Mao Mu's classic The Moon and Sixpence, and his Veil was also made into a movie.

Half a century after Mao Mu's death, his works are still shining and deeply loved by readers.

Mao Mu's name is widely known, but his success is by no means accidental, and even has little to do with talent. His success comes from his own heart and persistence.

1874, Mao Mu was born in a middle-class family in Paris. Before he was ten years old, his parents died, and young Mao Mu was sent to England to be raised by his uncle.

Because of her short stature and severe stuttering, Mao Mu is often bullied by older children.

Lonely and miserable childhood has cast a painful shadow on his young mind.

1897, Mao Mu, who was used to the living conditions of the people at the bottom, decided to give up medicine and devote himself to literature, and cut into life and society with a scalpel-like cold and sharp eye.

He wrote in the writer's notes that in order to observe everyone he met, he would record their looks, personalities and ways of speaking.

From 1892 during the internship to 1944 at the age of 70, the writer's notes came to an abrupt end.

Because of this, Mao Mu's novels are full of characters, and the human nature described is as complicated as reality, and the whole work is full of profound significance.

Imagine: Any ordinary person, such as Mao Mu, has persisted for decades, needless to say, won the Nobel Prize, and his works can easily achieve a class leap of self.

The reality is that even if many people know that this road can get the truth, it is difficult to stick to it.

Behind everything that looks glamorous, there is pain that you can't stand.

A person's success, to a large extent, is that he has done what most people can't do.

No one can reach his goal easily without experiencing difficulties.

No one will live a life without troubles at all.

People who are afraid of trouble will suffer all their lives; He who is not afraid of trouble will suffer for a while at most.

Born to be human, we all have our own secular desires, joys and sorrows.

Trouble in life never stops. Whether we like it or not, whether we are happy or not, there are always various intractable diseases coming at us.

No one is qualified to ask you to keep positive energy for 24 hours, but at least you can face it calmly.

If you want to go to a place, you need to make a detour, and you don't have to be overly upset.

Tell yourself that it is because of trouble that most people will be screened out.

All the roads leading to the light will not be too crowded.

As long as you get through the darkness in front of you, the dawn will eventually light up.

For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can be the best ourselves in ordinary life, not afraid of trouble, not afraid of the long journey, and we are in the same boat through thick and thin.

Encourage with you.