How to send a message to save your predecessor and how to chat with your predecessor?

When saving money, everyone should pay attention to sending messages to each other, because you have broken up and the relationship is very sensitive. At this time, the other party may speculate between the lines. If you are wrong, it will not only be self-defeating, but also make the other person want to leave you more.

So, how to successfully save your predecessor through SMS?

Here, I would like to share two points with you:

Save the taboo of sending text messages by my predecessor.

Save your predecessor's SMS skills

Let's start with the first one. What are the taboos for saving your ex from texting?

Don't send a short message that touches you with a thousand words.

After breaking up, many girls or emotional boys are reluctant to send a long list of thousands of short messages to their predecessors, describing the mental journey of the two of you, and they are moved to tears.

So, can these short messages still impress your predecessor? In fact, most of your predecessors are disgusted with this kind of short message, because you are in a sensitive period, and your thousands of words will make him think you are naive.

If he likes you, maybe he will be moved. If it is not a peaceful breakup, then your words will only make him feel bored, and even feel that it is right to choose to leave you.

Begging not to send text messages

Asking the former to return to him and asking the former to get back together is a common mistake made by many people who want to save their predecessors. Begging him to come back to you will only make your balance out of control and put you at a disadvantage.

Like "I beg you, will you come back to me?" I really can't live without you. "It seems that your value is very low, which is quite unfavorable for your future development. You will make the other person feel that you begged me to come back, so that I can challenge your bottom line in the future.

Then in this relationship, you will always be in a relatively low position, you are limited everywhere, and the emotional problems between you have not been solved, so it is not impossible to break up again.

However, most pleading messages can't save your ex, but only make your ex want to stay away from you.

So, what are the SMS skills to save your predecessor?

This information is as simple and easy to understand as possible.

When you send him a message, first check whether it is simple and easy, and don't put pressure on him (never talk about feelings, let alone get back together with the other person) in case he wants to escape. First of all, eliminate the vigilance of the other party, so as to proceed to the next step.

The content suits his interests.

Starting from interest can make him feel happy. You can send it like this:

I went to the concert of XX (the other party's favorite star) and bought a new album with a signature version. do you want to hear it ?

Your favorite XX will come to the signing ceremony recently, and the place is XX. Do you know that?/You know what?

Don't just pay attention to the topics that the other person is interested in, but also pay attention to simple questions, avoid asking complicated questions, and try to ask questions that can be answered both bad and good.

If the relationship gets better, you can send messages for help, especially when men rely on it. It feels good. For example:

I seem to have a cold. What is the specific medicine that you used to eat with good effect?

It is important to remember that you only need to get help from the other person's knowledge, not the other person. If the other party receives your message (even if it is boring), it will reply seriously, indicating that the other party attaches great importance to you. When you ask a question, you should pay attention to the reason why you ask the other person that question. For example, the other person is good at this, and can't say some questions that the other person is not clear or interested in, so that the other person doesn't know how to answer you, and may put it aside.

If the other person replies to your message quickly, it means that the other person cares more about you, and you have a great chance to get back together, but if the other person replies slowly, do you want to be affected?

When chatting by SMS, what you need to remember is:

Totally agree (feel the same way)

Start a topic.

For example, when the other person asks for trouble, it will make her feel very happy to show that I feel the same way. We are all the same people.