Do you need to be public when you first fall in love, Zhihu?

Everyone has always held different opinions. Some people like to keep a low profile and feel that it is not necessary for everyone to know before they get married. Breaking up and hitting them in the face will be embarrassing.

There are also some people who think it should be published. If they are in love, they will still create a single image. Don't they want to ride a donkey to find a horse and chat secretly?

When we ask our partner to announce their love, we mainly tell him that the fish in the fish pond has been taken away, so don't harass him and stay away from him.

Generally speaking, the weaker party in a relationship needs a sense of security more.

Part of the sense of security comes from the partner's open love and bright preference.

Those who say that only marriage can be announced are actually not firm enough.

Xiao Tong, a female netizen, said that she had a boyfriend in the trough.

At that time, she regarded her boyfriend as a lifeline, because her career was stagnant and her spirit was sluggish. Her boyfriend took good care of her and confessed to her.

As a result, she became psychologically dependent. Although she feels happy sometimes, she becomes more and more afraid.

Because her boyfriend has been dating her for half a year, he has never made it public, nor has he taken her to see any relatives and friends.

She felt very uneasy, and felt that her boyfriend didn't like her so much, as if she would lose this dependence at any time.

She is uncomfortable in this relationship, although her boyfriend takes care of her more in life.

Visible his firm choice and perseverance, Xiao Tong think this is the most terrible place.

Xiaotong thinks about whether her boyfriend loves her or not every day.

I'm not young anymore. When shall I get married?

When she questioned her boyfriend, he always had an excuse to refuse, pushing National Day from May Day and New Year's Day from National Day.

When she needs her boyfriend to disclose his existence, his statement is that she hasn't decided to get married, and it will be awkward to break up.

After talking for almost a year, there is no firm choice. Is it necessary to continue?

Finally, Xiao Tong didn't want to endure this kind of worry and gain any more, so he broke up first.

As she thought, her boyfriend didn't stay, but blessed peacefully.

She knew that she was just a tool person in this period, and she didn't want to go on from the moment he didn't want to go public.

Open love is very important for people who are deeply in love.