It's painful, but I want to make it right. How do extramarital women break up?

After breaking up, I found myself reluctant to part with each other and wanted to save each other, but I didn't know how to save them.

I believe many people don't understand what kind of mentality is needed in the recovery process. Because most people's first reaction after breaking up is anxiety, and then think about it, some even can't control their emotions, and they will be furious or weak. This mentality is quite unfavorable to redemption.

In the process of recovery, you should have a firm belief that the separation between you is only temporary, and she is not the best in your heart. Understand that equality between men and women, although you are wrong, does not mean that all the mistakes are on you. You can admit and correct your mistakes, but that doesn't mean you can take all the mistakes on yourself.

Many students will have a question when they see this: I love her very much, and only when I treat her as the right girl can I save her. How can I treat her as the best in my heart now? Well, if you take her too seriously, will you constantly expose your sense of need in the process of recovery, and it is easy to have emotional fluctuations because of her, thus reducing your value, which is very unfavorable for your recovery.

Then, be sure to find out the reason for breaking up, which is not only the fuse of breaking up, but also the fundamental problem between you. Only in this way can we know ourselves and ourselves in the subsequent recovery and win every battle. In the process of redemption, you should know that you are equal, so as not to make too many improper behaviors in the process of redemption.

The process of adjusting mentality is hard, but it is also necessary and most important. Since you decide to save it, you need to pay 200% determination and perseverance, which is the first step to success.

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