Given the latest iPhone to the girl I like, it cost more than 9,000. If it arrives today, she will know about it. I feel weird after receiving it.

According to the description, the poster is looking for a wife, but it feels a bit insincere. If you love someone, I suggest you give them an ordinary and appropriate gift and express your love in person. If you are unable to express your love in person, it is recommended not to send expensive gifts for the time being, but to keep in touch. Seize the time (she is 28 years old), confess your love seriously (she gave her a mobile phone 7 years ago), and there will be no regrets whether it succeeds or not (marrying a man and a woman is secular and there is no need for embarrassment). If you succeed in your pursuit, you will reap a lifetime of happiness; if you fail, it will only be a bumpy ride in your life, no loss at all!

1. Choosing marriage

Whether to give something away or not is a boy’s choice; whether to receive something or not is a girl’s decision. Give cheap things, just because you like them (provided that you like the person who gives gifts, and the gifts are just what you want); giving expensive things is to prove the boy's strength (the ability to support the family in the future).

When a boy is looking for a wife, he should be able to give him something cheap - just right - but he should also be able to give him something expensive - strong and responsible. When a girl chooses a spouse, she will accept cheap things - express affection with things and listen to her eyes, but she will accept expensive things - deep love and courtesy are missing from you. A girl refuses to accept gifts - she is independent enough (financially and ideologically), does not want to be unreliable or greedy in her pursuits, has a clear financial situation, has a free marriage, and is happy all the way!

2. Only choose gifts

In this era, men choose women and women choose men. The size of the gift is used as a lever. Chicken, duck, fish and meat are all available. In the end, the game is played. If you are pursuing affection outside of marriage, the more expensive the gift, the better (that’s the deal).