How to politely refuse an invitation from a boy?

If you are afraid of being invited to eat and drink too much, you can secretly set an alarm clock on your mobile phone before. When the alarm clock rings, you can say to answer the phone, go out for a long time and come back to apologize. You can also use the excuse of going to the toilet, so that others will not have any objections.

Answering irrelevant questions means refusing.

If someone wants to invite you to do something you don't want to do, you can subtly let the other person know by answering irrelevant questions that if you are not interested in his invitation, he will quit.

Li Juan met a man at a blind date, and they got along well at first, but Li Juan soon found that they were not suitable, so he planned to find some excuses to sever contact with each other. "How about going climbing next weekend?" When we parted, the man invited Li Juan again. "I always have to go to work next week, and so do weekends." "Then next week!" "I'll talk about it then. I've been going out to play on weekends recently, and I'm only energetic when I go to work on Monday. I'm going back to rest. " The other party immediately realized the meaning of Li Juan and did not continue to contact Li Juan.

Step 3 refuse by stalling for time

If the other person is your good friend, if you are worried that the direct refusal may hurt the other person, then it is better to delay the refusal. For example, a friend said, "Come to my house tomorrow." But if you don't want to go, it's definitely inappropriate to say "I don't have time, I don't want to go". Let's say "not tomorrow, some other time".

Step 4 use "the third party" to refuse

When someone asks you to send you an invitation, but you can't refuse it in person, or you say it's inappropriate, you can use a third party as an "intermediary" to convey the refusal skillfully and avoid the embarrassment of meeting.

5. Fuzzy reaction, circuitous refusal

The function of fuzzy response is that it not only leaves a little light of hope for the other party, but also creates a "buffer zone" for itself, which has a lot of room for manoeuvre.

After Ma Fang became the director of the personnel department of a bank, someone took advantage of various opportunities to send her a "warm invitation". She thought that going to an appointment would delay her work and be easily used by people with ulterior motives. So, she thought of a "vague statement" method to deal with this matter. On one occasion, someone took advantage of his birthday to invite Director Ma to "visit my humble abode". Ma Fang didn't want to attend this banquet, and it was hard to refuse, so he said, "The date you set is the time for the superior to inspect the work. Well, if it's nothing urgent, I'll take time to get together. " The implication is that if I am in a hurry or not available, I am sorry. Having said that, the other party can't say anything.

6. Use avoidance to express refusal

If a friend invites you to travel at the weekend and you don't want to associate with him, you can't tell him the reason. You can say to him, "the trip is really good, and I want to go, but we have to work overtime at the weekend." I am really sorry. " It is a common way to refuse to do something with something else.