My husband just can't get in touch with his first love. What should I do?

For a man, what he can't get is always good, and the position of first love in his heart is hard to shake. But a man is realistic, and he may not really want anything with her. Don't argue, don't make trouble. The man was confused for a moment. He didn't weigh the pros and cons. Now you ignore him. If he really wants to marry his first love, he will ask for a divorce. Now you can collect evidence, which will help you and repair it as much as possible. If your husband is only in contact with his first love, nothing else, you can ask him to break contact.

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In fact, the most correct choice for this relationship after marriage is to sever all ties. Those who say they can't be husband and wife, but can be friends can only target unrequited lovers, not those who have loved each other. There is a high probability of contacting again after falling in love. I wonder if you have children. Is the child an adult? If the child is underage, you should persuade your husband to have a complete home for this family and for the children, not to contact with the first love, but to grow up with the children. You should control the family's economic power, take care of your children and take care of yourself.

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Don't make a fuss about it, it may backfire. First love is probably just a beautiful memory, a feeling of ignorance. With the passage of time, the development of career, the child's this and that, and other more important things are full of life, he will find his first love boring sooner or later. Exchange your warm heart for his love for you, win her understanding with your tolerance, don't be cynical, don't intensify contradictions, stop it with a cool head and smart wisdom, let your husband distance himself from his first love, gradually dilute his spirit, and turn his devoted heart to your side.

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Once you keep in touch with your first love after marriage, it is inevitable that the old love will rekindle, and it is easy to wipe the gun off. If it is not adjusted in time, it is difficult to separate. Married men can only get along with their first love as friends, and can't have selfish distractions. They have a decent wife at home. They can't do anything wrong with their wives. They are busy with work. They can't get used to sitting down and talking. Wives are more concerned about taking care of their husbands, loving couples, living together and putting other things aside. As long as two people unite and love each other, the first love and the old love will slowly cool down, which is not a big deal, and the mentality will soon reverse.