After falling in love for a long time, he suddenly sent a message saying don't disturb my life. Why?

If you are single, I hope you can marry a single man, not a divorced man with children. I'm not saying it's not good to divorce with children. After all, he has been married once, so his past must still have his shortcomings. No matter how good the other person is. A family business cannot be destroyed by one person. Neither of them must have worked hard enough to run the family. So the failure of his first marriage. He should also bear this responsibility.

Besides, she has children, and the burden is heavier? Only that his energy is limited. Of course he can't love you wholeheartedly like a single man. Then they get along well and have a child of their own. Because he has to consider the family burden of this child. Study expenses. And you have to get used to this child and let this child accept you.

I believe anyone, she can say that she is carried away by love now. He can accept anything, including her children. But we don't live together for a day or two. This is a life we can make do with in one day. But I believe that in less than half a year, you may not have the patience to share your feelings with others, and then adapt to each other and accept everything from others. Who doesn't want to be alone? I have always believed what the old man said. Belly, mountain. So don't trust your husband, he can really put all of himself on you. If you two want another child, the burden will be even heavier. So he chooses to give up now, and it should be for the sake of fulfilling you. Don't feel that this feeling is lost, it's a pity. Because you may not be able to bear the burden. She is really not light. Just like my idea, adopt it!