The girlfriend I'm chasing hasn't returned any text messages.

I really don't understand why you think that what she said is not suitable for you and will make you puzzled. Maybe the other person thinks you are not bad or even good, but the other person doesn't have to like you. She will meet many people of the opposite sex who feel good, but she can't like and love them all. You must understand this.

If you really like her and love her, all you need to do is pay for her silently. Whether she accepts you or not is beyond your control. Love itself is a kind of selfless giving. Everything you do is to make the person you love happy, not to take it. This is not love, but an exchange for the purpose of taking. I hope you can understand.