Things that guests tend to dislike at weddings

About wedding invitations

Invite friends with whom you have a particularly good relationship:

After setting the wedding date, inform you of your wedding as soon as possible; be sure to notify them separately. It is best to invite in person; when the wedding is approaching, send WeChat or call again to invite friends with whom you have good relationships.

Invite friends with whom you have good relationships:

Do not send group messages, notify individually via WeChat or phone; for friends in the same social circle, synchronize information; when the wedding is approaching, send another WeChat or phone notification .

Invite friends with whom you have a casual relationship:

Send an electronic invitation to Moments a week in advance; if the other person invites you to their wedding, of course you should invite them too. V has comments or private messages Friends can be invited.

Whether you want to invite colleagues and leaders:

Colleagues and leaders with whom you have a good relationship can be invited privately; for people in your department or small team, it is recommended to send invitations; you can not invite them at all. Go to the company and give everyone a piece of wedding candy; do not talk about your marriage and wedding date in the company; if you have just joined the company, it is not recommended to invite them; for elders and leaders, you can send paper wedding invitations to show your attention.

This is knowledge! Hahaha, have you ever felt flustered when someone you never contacted suddenly said "Here you are"? 80% of them are either borrowing money or getting married! And there is also a friend who I thought I had a very good relationship with, but she never mentioned a word about her getting married. On the contrary, she didn't know whether to attend the wedding, and she was even a little disappointed? And whether to invite colleagues and leaders to the wedding is really a matter of hesitation!

About transportation and accommodation costs

Transportation and accommodation

Try to choose a wedding venue in a place with convenient transportation. Communicate with the hotel in advance about the parking space and deliver a certain amount of parking space. Parking fees will prevent guests from paying for parking fees out of pocket. At the same time, the parking lot should be clearly marked on the wedding invitation. If there are many guests, buses can be directly arranged to pick up out-of-town friends. Be sure to arrange for a dedicated receptionist and book accommodation in advance for the convenience of guests. rest. Regarding the elders of the newlyweds, communicate in advance that a family member will specially accompany them to pick them up.

For out-of-town guests, traveling thousands of miles to attend a wedding, not to mention how difficult it is to get tickets for May Day and National Day, how expensive the travel expenses are, and they have to pay for their own accommodation. Problem, plus a share of money, it’s really an uncomfortable thing!

About seating arrangement

Seating arrangement

Arrange a seating guide to guide guests to sit down before the wedding banquet begins. Electronic invitations generally have a people counting function. You can roughly count the number of people at the wedding and make wedding seat cards, such as high school classmates of the groom/colleagues of the bride. This will also make it easier for guests to quickly find their seats according to their identities. Pay attention to the division of wedding seats and try to divide them into circles. Familiar people are arranged together

This is a confusing part of the wedding. Many guests present do not know where they should sit and stand confused at the door, finally finding an empty seat. It’s really awkward when we’re all strangers!

About the wedding ceremony

Wedding ceremony

It is recommended that the entire wedding ceremony lasts for 30-40 minutes, and the number and time of the speakers should be controlled, with 1-2 speakers. That’s it, don’t make a lengthy or sensational statement, just keep the language simple and plain.

Actually, not all guests know your story and can be excited about your vows. On the contrary, it is not a very good experience to watch the newlyweds show their affection all the time. The ritual is unoriginal and cumbersome, and may be quite boring.

About the banquet atmosphere

The banquet atmosphere

The sound and microphone of the wedding must be checked in advance to avoid reverberation. The lighting should match the wedding style and not be too dazzling. The wedding music should not be too noisy and harsh. It is recommended to match it with soothing light music during the meal time.

Many people can’t stand an overly noisy environment, especially the elderly and children. If the lights are too dazzling, the music is too hot, and the microphone is too noisy, it will really affect the guest’s experience.

About Wedding Candy Meals

Wedding Candy Meals

Don’t be too stingy when purchasing wedding candies. Don’t step on well-known brands. Try the dishes in advance and have a good mix of meat and vegetables. If If you have seafood, be sure to check the portion and quantity.

The serving time must be communicated and confirmed. You can serve cold dishes first before the official start of the meal, and then serve hot dishes one by one. Pay attention to the speed of serving.

Most of the guests’ complaints about the wedding mainly focus on, “The food tastes too bad!” and “The food is cold!”. So the food at the wedding may really determine the guests’ overall evaluation of your wedding!

About guest reception

Guest reception

Arrange someone to see off the guests and thank them for coming. After the wedding, send a message saying that I am too busy today and will not be with you. You said I didn't take good care of you. I'll treat you to dinner when I have time.

On the day of the wedding, the newlyweds are quite busy and have to entertain a lot of people, especially the distinguished guests invited by their families. This leads to many guests attending the wedding with great expectations. As a result, in addition to giving red envelopes, - in a word Not talking to the newlyweds and having no one to entertain you will make the guests feel that they are not valued.