My colleague's father died. How can I send a message to comfort him?

Death is perhaps the most helpless thing in the world. No one is not afraid of death, and no one can stand it. Especially the people who love you and the people you love suddenly disappear into your life and can't be seen again. You will find that there is an unbearable weight of life invading your body and mind.

No one can really face his wife's death as freely as Zhuangzi, and no one can really achieve what Heidegger called "life to death".

We all live in this world, and people are so closely connected. Even if we don't care about the death of the body, we still can't let go of those people in your soul who you care about. So I can only try my best to comfort everyone who has lost their loved ones.

1, the dead rest in peace, and the living work hard.

2. The dead are gone, but the living regret their loss.

I feel sorry for your loss. People who leave don't want you to be unhappy.

I feel sorry for your loss. By the way, don't be too sad. Take care of yourself.

5. Birth, old age, illness and death are natural phenomena, so you must feel sorry for your loss! Take care of yourself.

6, relatives or sadness, others have also sung. What's the way to die? I'm on the same mountain.

7. My family will have a good time there. I don't want to see everyone too sad.

8. Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws. Death is her ultimate accommodation, so don't be too sad.

9, life and death, the law of nature! Don't be too sad, he will feel your filial piety.

10, people will leave one day. If he leaves happily, then he has nothing to worry about.

1 1, life and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; No one has died since ancient times, as long as they live in my heart.

12, just don't let them miss you, and don't be sad. After all, people can't come back from the dead. Let's go

Matters needing attention

1. Pay attention to your clothes when attending the funeral. You must wear dark clothes, preferably black, to attend the funeral. You can't wear gorgeous clothes and colorful clothes to attend. Don't wear bright ornaments and decorations, and keep a low profile.

2. Then, prepare the gift money, which must be wrapped in white letters, commonly known as "white bags".

3. You can also offer a wreath or a basket of white flowers to express your condolences according to local customs. You can send it in your own name, or you can send a big white wreath in the name of an agency or company. It's better to let the glistening shop deliver it.

4. When you arrive at the funeral home or ceremony site, your expression should be serious and solemn, and you will naturally show a sad look. Don't laugh and play with people around you, it's a very disrespectful act to the dead. In some places, the custom is to light three sticks of incense, then bow three times, and then kowtow three times after inserting the incense. In some places, it is a custom to burn paper money for the dead.

When you leave, you need to comfort your colleagues and friends who have lost their loved ones, so that they don't feel too sad to avoid injury. You can also send a gift at this time to express your condolences. Ask them what they need to help, and if they can lend a helping hand, offer their meager strength.

6. Finally, when all the ceremonies are over, shake hands with the families of the deceased to say goodbye.