Some people don't know.

In life, we will meet many people and miss many people.

Meeting the right person will add a lot of fun and joy to our life; Meeting the wrong person will not only waste our experience, but also affect your happy mood and progress.

Therefore, some people, who know each other, deserve our treasure; Some people, even if they know each other, will eventually feel that they might as well not know each other!

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For a while, I went to the hospital in the city for a physical examination. On the way, an elder sister from the same department in the neighboring county asked me some statistics on QQ. I said I don't remember now. I'm going to the hospital for examination now, wait for me to go back. She asked again, when will you go back? I said, about Friday!

During this period, due to the need for further examination and laboratory tests, I went through the hospitalization procedures.

On Friday afternoon, my sister asked on QQ again: Brother, are you back? I told her that she was in the hospital for examination and would not be able to go back for a while. She asked: Oh, then you can have a physical examination. Who else can find these data? I can't say clearly. Then go on to say: Do you think your company XXX will check it? How about having her check it on your computer? I blocked her directly.

Although my sister and I are in a working group in the city, we don't know each other at all. Only once, through the XXX introduction of the unit, I asked for some data before I came into contact for the first time. This is only the second time.

Even with friends as the medium. Our relationship hasn't arrived yet. In my poor health, I want to worry about how to get these data for you. Communication with you also takes into account the relationship between XXX and our company, and you completely ignored my mood at that time and asked me about my work several times, which really made me unable to understand. And according to common sense, these data can only be released after the approval of the leaders, so I have no obligation to tell you this at present.

If you are a good friend, at this moment, you won't ask me about the data, just tell me: don't think about anything, take good care of yourself, and the rest is nonsense!

I can understand that this elder sister is a workaholic, or is forced by the leader's urging, so she is eager to do a good job, but many times she has to prioritize when looking at problems and handling things. This is very important for your work and my health. You don't think from my point of view, and I don't even need to perfunctory you.

So, in my opinion, it only means that such people don't know each other!

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On WeChat and QQ, each of us will have hundreds of contacts, some even thousands. Have relatives, classmates, friends, colleagues, friends of friends, etc. , but rarely contact often.

However, we can't delete all these people who don't contact often. You never know who will use it one day. If I delete it today, how embarrassing will it be to use it? So, it doesn't affect anything anyway, just keep it!

This kind of psychology is human nature.

But what some people do will definitely make you unbearable. For example, the WeChat business screens. He hasn't even appeared in your circle of friends since you two became friends. They are all advertisements, and you have never communicated with each other through this platform. Such people don't need to be friends or know each other.

There are also people who ask for gifts from collections, "those who don't forward them to the families of the deceased" and "all of them are from China". These people rarely communicate at ordinary times, and almost all the content they send is to vent their inner grievances or close to the moral bottom line.

This information not only wastes a lot of traffic, but also occupies a lot of public resources. Originally in a work exchange group, it was for exchange and study. The sudden appearance of such a nondescript message makes people want to kick this person away.

I seldom praise this person, and I seldom comment in other people's circle of friends. I would rather die than send those boring messages. Gradually, I found that my whole family was safe and sound, and I didn't become a foreigner because I didn't forward it, so I despised these hypocritical criminals.

Therefore, if a person can't tell right from wrong, what works and what doesn't, what to do and what not to do in any occasion, such a person won't know!

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Many times, people who often don't contact suddenly call: buddy, the leader gave me something, and I always feel that I didn't do very well. You are an "expert" in this field. Help me to revise it.

Because of your kindness, you took the job and worked hard for two or three days. After handing it to him, he let out a cry: buddy, you did a good job and the leader was quite satisfied. Thank you for inviting you to dinner another day!

Since then, there has been no news.

When I contacted you again, I still asked you about your work, or the same kind words: buddy, I thanked you last time and always wanted to invite you to dinner, but I was too busy to have time. I have to trouble you again this time. Who told you to do well in this respect? This job is finished, our leader said, we must thank you!

Slowly, you will find out where this is. What does it matter to him how well he does his work? Their leader asked him to work, but he came to you instead. No matter how well you do, does their leader know who you are? Even if their leader will thank you one day, it won't be you!

So, at best, you are just a behind-the-scenes worker, and your grades have become someone else's wedding clothes.

But one day, such friends will make you work again. If you refuse, his words will be mean: dude, what do you mean? Isn't that what I want to ask you? It will take a minute to squeeze in. Isn't the leader in a hurry? I recommend you to the leader because of your excellent work. You can't embarrass me!

You see, this time I moved the leader out directly and forced you to do it. Whether you like it or not, whatever you have, he gave you a direct task as a leader.

Such a person, with all due respect, should have refused to ask you for help for the first time, and there is no need to contact again.

Because, his appearance, not only did not bring you positive guidance, but let you live in the psychological imbalance of being used all the time, so people don't know!

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Some people appear in your life to walk with you, picking flowers all the way and pursuing distant ideals.

Some people, passing you by, will also bring you a beautiful vision and make you full of imagination about the world.

Some people, looking at her photos and listening to her deeds, will also make your heart beat and change your life.

Some people appear in your life, drinking with you to drown your sorrows, cheer you up and embark on your journey again.

Some people will only increase your sadness and troubles, and will not bring you a trace of joy and happiness. ...

Such people, I don't know!