My girlfriend doesn't like to send me text messages and call me.

I hope you cherish her. Not contacting doesn't mean she doesn't miss you. A man should take the initiative. I also want to tell you that the four stages of love ... will last forever, but if not, we will break up!

A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship must go through four stages, that is:

* * * codeindependent, counterdependent, independent, inter-dependent, the time required for the transition is not necessarily different from person to person.

The first stage: * * save. This is a period of passionate love. Whenever and wherever, lovers always want to be bored with each other.

The second stage: anti-dependence. After emotional stability, at least one party will want to have more time to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.

The third stage: independence. This is a continuation of the second stage and requires more independent time.

The fourth stage: * * *. At this time, a new way of getting along has been formed, and your person (her) has become your closest person. You support each other and create your own life together. When you are together, you will grow together, not drag each other down. But unfortunately, most people can't pass the second or third stage and choose to break up. As long as communication is good, many things will be fine. Don't play with personality, think too much. Trust each other, then the time of the second and third stages will be shortened. It is not easy to meet and fall in love with the person you love. Don't give up easily. Two people get together because of fate, and know each other because of intention. We really should cherish this blessing, let alone break up.