I received a text message from my boyfriend before I got married.

I don't know what you mean by many changes. But there are only two possible reasons why the information in the chat suddenly doesn't return: First, he is really busy with something, too busy to take care of his mobile phone. Second: I don't want to go back or escape. Simply put, you don't care, because people who are serious about you won't have such behavior.

Giving money when you meet can't prove anything, just like that sentence: it's not how much he pays, but whether he cherishes what he pays. If a person is not rich but always willing to spend money for you, then he loves you; If a person's time is tight, then his time with you is valuable.

Getting a marriage certificate is also a test for both couples, especially the man. First of all, people who are unwilling to accept it may have different mentality: one is that they feel that they are not good enough and have no ability to give each other happiness; One is not willing to be responsible at all, and not willing to be locked in their freedom by marriage. Moreover, although the former is hesitant, you can see his efforts for your future and his attitude of cherishing you.

If you really feel that you have changed, you might as well seriously think about whether he has changed, you have changed, or the way you get along with each other has changed over time. Of course, after being together for a long time, the novelty will fade, which is inevitable, but it does not mean indifference. True love will become an understanding and compromise of mutual tolerance after the novelty fades.