I haven't contacted him for ten days, so I haven't answered his message. What do you mean, cut it off? Why are you doing this? I want to know what you are dragging.

Go directly to his house, discuss the premarital matters in place, and continue to reach a consensus. If no consensus is reached, it is not a solution.

The bride price refers to the money and goods paid by one party (mainly the man) and his relatives to the other party (mainly the woman) and his relatives according to the custom. Although the act of paying bride price is not advocated by law, it is not prohibited.

The parties who return the bride price are the individual payer and the individual beneficiary. In practice, the giver and receiver of the bride price are not limited to both men and women, but may also include parents and relatives of both men and women, who can be the parties to the lawsuit of returning the bride price.

Both parties should return the bride price after going through the marriage registration formalities but not living together.

"If both parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but have not lived together", they should also be returned at the time of divorce. The legislative reason is: "If you have never lived together, there will be no experience of mutual assistance and living together between husband and wife. Therefore, for both parties, although the marriage relationship in the legal sense has been established, the real common life in the substantive sense is far from beginning.

Due to different habits in different places, rural areas and some places often pay more attention to holding some weddings with local characteristics, and pay more attention to two people really coming to a family and starting to live together. In addition, in many cases, it takes a long time to hold these ceremonies and register marriages. If the two sides don't live together, there won't be too many ties to connect them. "