What is a real best friend like?

The last two plays are Happiness at Your fingertips and Who says I can't get married? In these two plays, girlfriends are easy to fall in love. Zhou Fang, Qin Qing, Lu Cheng and Tian Lei represent two different girlfriends. Zhou Fang and Qin Qing met at the age of 17. Their friendship began before their first love appeared. The youth they spent together was more profound than their first love. For Qin Qing, Zhou Fang is her bottom line and the only person she wants to protect. Zhou Fang broke up for the first time because love rat's predecessor, Wang Zeyang, cheated. When Qin Qing appeared in the early Qing Dynasty, he picked up a brick and hit Wang Zeyang. He had to admire Qin Qing's courage, but think about it carefully. Qin Qing is also a girl. Who really wants to fight with Wang Zeyang? At that time, Qin Qing certainly didn't think so much, because protecting Zhou Fang was her first meaning. Zhou Fang broke up with Song Lian for the second time. The reason why they broke up was not entirely Song Lian's own fault, but Qin Qing, as a best friend, rushed to Song Lian's office as soon as she knew it, splashed water on Song Lian's face and told Song Lian to stay away from Zhou Fang. Maybe many people think that a girlfriend like Qin Qing is impulsive, but for a girl, having such a girlfriend is more secure than having a boyfriend. The reason why a best friend can be a best friend is that when something goes wrong, she will stand by you unswervingly and give you enough support. Let's talk about the story of Tian Lei and Lu Cheng again. There is a good friend like Tian Lei, and judging from what she has done, I feel a little scary. If Qin Qing is blocking the knife for Zhou Fang, then Tian Lei is pushing Lu Cheng into the fire pit. Have Tian Lei and Lu Cheng known each other for a short time? They are college classmates. They met in their twenties and have known each other for about fifteen years now. Their feelings are not worse than those of Zhou Fang and Qin Qing. But how did Tian Lei do it? She used it as a tool for her success, because she wanted to cooperate with her old classmate Liu, and when she learned that Liu had an idea, she did not hesitate to push it out. She also sent Liu a text message in the name of Liu to invite him to a hotel. Of course, this is a trap set by Tian Lei. Although it did not cause substantial harm to Lu Cheng, she mercilessly stabbed Lu Cheng in the heart. It shouldn't be too much to use your girlfriend for your own career, thinking only about yourself and not considering other people's behavior. But the most irritating thing is that Tian Lei has no remorse for what she did, and she also rebuked Lu Cheng for making a mountain out of a molehill. As can be seen from the above example, Qin Qing and Tian Lei are two different girlfriends, which may be related to their personalities, but one is a girlfriend who thinks of you and the other is using your girlfriend. How to choose? There should be no need to say more. When many people choose a girlfriend, they are either like-minded or have something that attracts you, but if one party is always consumed by the other, friendship will always run out. A best friend is a relationship, just like a couple and family. After a long time together, there will be some frictions, such as the contradiction between Qin Qing and Zhou Fang, which is at best a disagreement between girlfriends, but between Tian Lei and Lu Cheng, it is a matter of principle. How can I get back with my trusted girlfriend? Although I forgive you, I may not forget that you have hurt me. Tell a true story. When I just graduated, my best friend and I joined the same company, during which I had a chance to change jobs, and the job after the job change was my goal. At first, my best friend said she wouldn't jump ship, but in the end, the person who jumped ship became her, but before that, she never told me that she wanted to jump ship. At that moment, I felt betrayed by my best friend. The so-called friendship is so fragile Although I can tell this story calmly now, I was really hurt at that time. Although it didn't break us up, my feelings can't go back to the past after all. In fact, this story also shows that many of us want to have a girlfriend like Qin Qing, but things around us are often like Tian Lei. What is a real girlfriend like? What does a real girlfriend look like? Just like what true love looks like, there is no standard answer. I think the feeling between good girlfriends should be: seeing each other late, the old friend returns. The best way for girlfriends to get along may be that one person is struggling hard and the other person is accompanying and encouraging in his own way. When a person is frustrated or hit, another person will accompany and comfort him. One side succeeded, and the other side was full of blessings without the slightest jealousy. When not together, girlfriends don't deliberately think of each other. When they are happy or unhappy, the first thing that comes to mind is their girlfriends. Lu Cheng, Tian Lei and Ding Shiya are good friends and girlfriends in the recently hit TV series "Who says I can't get married". Lu Cheng and Tian Lei attended the reunion of college classmates. Lu Cheng met Li Weihao, and he has always been very fond of her, and he is still single. After the party, Tian Lei found a reason to leave, deliberately creating opportunities for Lu Cheng and Li Weihao. In the plot at this time, the relationship between Tian Lei and Lu Cheng seems to be really the feelings between girlfriends. Tian Lei is considering Lu Cheng and creating opportunities. Liu Feng, an old classmate of Tian Lei and Lu Cheng, is the general manager of Wanjia. Liu Feng is married and has children, but he still has a crush on Lu Cheng. In order to win Wanjia's lawsuit, Tian Lei used Lu Cheng as an excuse when having dinner with Liu Feng. When I dated Lu Cheng, I used dinner with Li Weihao as an excuse. At dinner, Lu Cheng embarrassed Li Weihao because he misused the chat method of Shuwei. Tian Lei knew that Lu Cheng was interested in Li Weihao, and Liu Feng was malicious to Liu Chenghuai, but he kept a secret from Liu Cheng to organize a dinner, apparently using Lu Cheng. The dinner didn't promote the cooperation between Tian Lei and Wanjia, and Liu Feng didn't want to sign a contract with her. After learning that Liu Feng's wife is the head of thousands of households, Tian Lei sneaked into the locker room of the boxing gym, sent a message to Liu Feng with Lu Cheng's mobile phone, and made an appointment to meet in the hotel room. On the other hand, Tian Lei sent a message to Liu Fengzhi's wife and arranged for Liu Fengzhi's wife to wait for Liu Feng in her room. Liu Feng hurried to the appointment, thinking that Lu Cheng was waiting for him. Although the final result was happy, Tian Lei succeeded in getting Wanjia's case because she had something on Liu Feng. However, when Ding Shiya questioned her afterwards, she asked Ding Shiya to keep a secret and did not intend to confess to Lu Cheng. From beginning to end, Liu Cheng didn't let Tian Lei know to use her. Later in the story, this stalk should be done again. If Lu Cheng knew what Tian Lei had done, he didn't know what to do. As a TV story, Tian Lei will eventually apologize to Lu Cheng, and Lu Cheng will eventually forgive her, but if you and I encounter such a thing in real life, will you forgive the other party for using and cheating at that time? Lu Cheng was once frustrated by the script. After boxing, he stood under the tap and cried secretly to release his emotions. After Tian Lei found out, Ding Shiya, who was quietly pulled in, sat at the door with her. Tian Lei was distressed for Lu Cheng at this time. But after all, she cheated and used Lu Cheng before. Perhaps, as Ding Shiya said, Tian Lei's fault is self-righteousness, and she will definitely pay the price for her self-righteousness in the following plot. Friendship also needs to grow. I don't know how Lu Cheng and Tian Lei will reconcile and grow up after the conflict breaks out.