Why do you hate mass texting?

Why do I dislike sending short messages in groups? I believe many people will feel the same way, and it can also cause * * *. Sometimes it is unnecessary for a person to hate something. That hatred comes from the deep heart, and the rational brain can't analyze the reason. It may also be just a performance art that shows personality. Like it or not, it is only for entertainment, and it is not serious for things or people themselves. I often get lost in all kinds of annoying reasons, list them like a paranoid, and convince myself that annoying is rational enough, not whimsical, not a prelude to overwhelming. Then try to make clear the reasons for being annoying!

First, it seems insincere to send messages in groups.

Chinese New Year is a good time for friends and relatives to get together. Usually, they are disconnected, close and distant, familiar and unfamiliar. Some years, this rope is twisted, and they can't help but get close to each other. They meet well, chatting and catching up. The atmosphere of New Year is a vast world and an idle time. Everyone has no pressure. But for those who can't meet, they can only achieve the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as calling New Year's greetings, online videos, mobile phone short messages and the emerging WeChat. Telephone calls and videos are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and fast enough, and it is impossible to spread to all relatives and friends unless they are particularly close. Short messages are a popular form of communication, fast and convenient enough, and have been popular for more than ten years, but they still occupy the first channel of Spring Festival New Year's greetings, but short message operators happen.

On such a grand occasion as the Chinese New Year, people are eager to receive messages of blessing. The more they receive, the more they show that they have strong personality charm and make more friends, which is a foaming agent for self-expansion. However, among the many messages you received, you found that different friends sent the same blessing messages, and some reckless people didn't even have time to change their signatures before forwarding, which made people even more surprised. Will you still feel heavy? Of course not. You will regret to find out that you are unimportant, and you will see through your friend's carelessness. Tap a key on a short message, and this message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. This convenient operation will ruin your friend's good image of sincerity and reliability in your mind. It turns out that you are just a string of cold numbers in his New Year wishes, and what you send is not a blessing, but a radio wave that tests the link. At this time, people often doubt the meaning of sending short messages and lose confidence in their sincerity.

Second, sending messages in groups has cast a dust on the celebration of the New Year.

The celebration of the New Year runs through before and after New Year's Eve, and most people who have traveled through hardships and dangers just happen to catch up with the New Year's Eve. The good time to reunite with their families may only be on New Year's Eve and the first day or two, and other days need to go out to visit relatives and friends frequently, so they are as busy as a child. Therefore, the feast of New Year's Eve needs to calm down and concentrate on spending time with their parents and families, but this time is also a time when short messages of blessing are concentrated Receiving sincere wishes will definitely add icing on the cake to the festival. If the full screen of mass text messages fills the memory of the mobile phone like a plague, your heart will not be so beautiful, and you will be depressed! You will be sick! These mass short messages drown the truly meaningful greetings in the torrent, which may make you miss the vital blessing information in life. It is possible that the person in your heart has not received a response for a long time after sending you the blessing of love, and there is always a feeling of resentment. In the process of the Spring Festival, any unpleasantness will dust the celebration of the New Year and leave a shadow on your heart. A bad beginning will always make people have an inextricable knot.

Third, sending messages in groups makes friendship or affection lose its sense of reality

The maintenance of feelings lies in the management and efforts of both parties. Affection and friendship are two different feelings, and we often treat them separately, maintaining the sincerity and long-term feelings with different attitudes and ways. The greetings during the Spring Festival, however, bring the two feelings together and blend together. During the Spring Festival, friends and relatives can't tell each other apart, and they don't want to be so clear. Anyway, it's all New Year's Day, just to be happy and lucky, and the rules that both family and friendship can * * * agree with each other are simply stewed in one pot. The bad thing about mass texting is what kind of mentality is behind those emotionless words. The compilation of blessing information is not a mass sender, and the true meaning of the text may not be recognized by the sender. Perhaps many senders simply don't understand all the information and send it out at will. The meaning itself is not important, but the sender cares about the sending itself. Give the receiver a thought and see if I have not forgotten you! Even the same short message is sent to all the names in the address book that can be saved in the address book, and how many are real friends? Not all of them, but a considerable part of them may be working partners who have met once or have never met before. These people can't be mentioned in the same breath as relatives and friends, but they don't have this choice in sending information, and family and friendship lose their sense of reality here.

I hate sending short messages in groups, but I don't hate Chinese New Year's message wishes. Calling is the best way to pay New Year's greetings, but it's too late to take care of it. The next best thing is to choose information. But I will edit the contents of the information item by item, and try not to be identical. After all, it is sent to all kinds of relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and comrades-in-arms, even if it is slower. A year is a long time.