Why do people send blessing messages in groups during the Chinese New Year?

On New Year's Eve, everyone's WeChat will definitely receive a lot of blessings. Anyone with a discerning eye will know that it is a simple copy and then forwarded message. It looks like a literary blessing. Why am I so disgusted and too lazy to take care of it? Because these blessings are too simple, too easy and too casual, we will be surprised to receive them at first few times, and then they will become more and more garbage piles.

I don't like this kind of blessing message. Even if it is sent by a close friend, I will reply with a few simple words of blessing. Even if there is only one simple word of "Happy New Year", it is very simple, but it is also very relaxed. At least I type it with my finger, which is not random. It represents my sincere blessing. Perhaps the other party will feel that it is just three short words and they feel that they have lost. But for a true friend, he will understand you and won't mind.

Many people take the opportunity of sending blessings in groups to test whether their friends have been deleted. For those who haven't been in contact for many years but haven't seen their circle of friends in the address book for half a year, if they send a link to clean powder alone on weekdays, they will definitely be despised by the other party. The New Year just gives them a legitimate opportunity to find the answer by sending blessings.

Some people simply think that when they see a good blessing message in the group, such as various shapes and creativity, they will collect it if they think it is fun, and then they want to share it with their relatives and friends. This is a bit like getting a fun toy as a child and wanting other friends to look at it and play.

Some people are even simpler, omitting the steps of copying, pasting and forwarding, and simplifying the three steps directly into one step, collecting or making New Year emoticons, and clicking on everyone's information interface to send them with one click, which saves time and effort. I often encounter many emoticons crashing. However, some people should also be creative, such as making emoticons with their own photos, getting some interesting actions, and adding a few words of blessing. Although it is also a one-click delivery, it is quite intentional. For this kind of blessing, I replied at the first time, because the other party is very attentive, and I also hope that after receiving the blessing from the other party, I can convey my wishes in the shortest time.

This is a bit like what I mentioned in my previous article. The excessive use of mobile phones has reduced the temperature between two people in front of the screen. There are a lot of people who don't contact often on weekdays. After looking through the chat records, they found that the last communication turned out to be last year's Spring Festival blessing information. It can be said that it is really invisible to greet people on weekdays, and they go once a year during the Spring Festival.

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Having said so much, are those blessing messages sent in groups during the New Year returned or not?

As mentioned above, I will dialectically see whether it is worthwhile to return through the blessings I receive, even the words and expressions. For those extremely hard setters, I will not receive their love.

I think that since the Spring Festival is a time for family reunion, we should also take time out to meet friends while having fun with our relatives. After all, during our hard work year, the only way to communicate with our friends is to chat face to face, drink and talk nonsense by phone or WeChat, which is far more close to each other than through the cold screen of mobile phones and listen to what happened to each other this year. It's embarrassing to say, but once you've had three glasses of wine, it's time to really talk. But there must be a limit, after all, drinking too much wine is not a good thing.