When a friend says, "You have a lot of connections"

Recently, I received several friends asking me for help on WeChat, such as concert tickets, recommending a photography teacher and finding a celebrity with a surname ... I want to say that this is not my daily category, but my friends expressed a meaning in their words: You usually have many friends and a wide network, please help me find it. To be honest, my feeling at that moment was:

1. It happened to be my working time. I was really busy at two o'clock, but I managed to reply to each other. I turned down a friend directly because I really couldn't think of a way. For the other two friends, I tried to communicate with other friends again. Although the problem has not been solved in the end, there are also factors such as reluctance to buy at a high price and distrust of my recommendation.

2. The above statement is not to flaunt yourself. The other party's request to me is based on trust rather than long-term trust. Although I was a little embarrassed, I didn't lie or perfunctory, although I didn't like the saying "you are very connected" and I didn't take it out on each other.

I think my friends' pictures and words are very positive, and I don't show off too much contact. Friends are all riding friends, and friends and even colleagues rarely appear. Maybe my enthusiasm for meeting and chatting with friends made them mistakenly think that the social life of single women is extensive. Suddenly I don't want to explain anything to myself, because besides taking part in 007 writing, I also learn mint English, practice standing piles and learn the basic course of Chinese medicine of Magnolia officinalis every day. I also like reading and writing.

To say the above three points is just a pale statement. After all, I don't want anyone to frame me. I just inadvertently told my friends about a person's settings and had some reflections. This is actually a little different from hearing such words as "How did you get fat? You became beautiful". One is the relationship between yourself and your surroundings, and the other is just the relationship between yourself and yourself. I admit that I will go to some bureaus when I am in high spirits and don't know how to converge. At that time, mobile phones were not fun, online games were not big, and there was no entertainment shopping platform. Internet access is still tens of megabytes of broadband, and then a person will be very idle in the room. But at the moment, it's too noisy. Maybe I am old, so I choose to actively shield some factors I don't like at the moment and immerse myself in a kind of self-pleasure. I want nothing, so I don't want my parents to be healthy and happy.

People's state will change with age, and it will also be very different with the change of mood. In fact, being misunderstood or even misunderstood is nothing. I only do this review to strengthen my practice. Different people have different views on the matter of personal connections, but the older they grow up, the more they understand that it is best not to disturb friends around them. It is very good to give some help to your friends. No nonsense, no persistence, this is a good practice. To tell the truth, even with my parents, at a certain stage, I will be embarrassed to ask more, let alone my friends around me! It is a kind of wisdom and an awakening that the grace of dripping water is rewarded by spring water.

In fact, I am very grateful to the above three friends for being outspoken in front of me, letting me explore the corners I have never noticed in my heart and clean up my heart in time. It is a very useful examination and reflection. A friend can be a mirror for us. We should look carefully in the subdivided life, don't be emotional, and constantly sort out our own knots.