My girlfriend always ignores me.

According to your situation, I make a few assumptions.

1. Personality problems. I think you may not know much about your girlfriend's personality. I suggest you find out through other channels whether your girlfriend is like that or maybe she is withdrawn. That's what lonely people do. Let's see if she is introverted and naturally quiet. Anyway, it's a personality problem.

2. Economic problems. Maybe her family is poor and self-abased, and then she can't hold her head in front of you, feeling that eating others is short-handed and has no face. You spent 1w, and she only1k. Any financial problems?

3. Psychological problems. You haven't dated for a long time. I can see that you don't know your girlfriend very well ... if you don't, it means that she hasn't fully trusted you, which means that time is too hasty and feelings are not strong. She is very afraid of being hurt. But then again, who is not afraid of being hurt! So maybe time can change these problems.

One more thing to add is that her silence is a shortcoming, although it drives you crazy. It is especially embarrassing when people are pointed out their shortcomings and have no strength to fight back. So don't always say that she is silent. The more you talk, the worse the result may be, leading to emotional bumps and discomfort.

Suggestion: Facts show that you are affectionate. There is nothing wrong with your feelings, but there is something wrong with the way you feel. What you have to do is to change your way. If it is 1, it is a personality problem, and it is not easy to change, so there is nothing to talk about. How active. If it is 2, don't buy her an expensive one every time, others will be embarrassed because she can't afford it. If it is 3, time can make her gain trust in you. Also, long-distance love is very hard and extremely sensitive. Don't feel uncomfortable in every text message, every phone call and every qq message. Don't smell of gunpowder.