My husband has been gone for half a year. The phone is turned off and he doesn’t tell me where he is. Only the mistress sent me a text message asking how I can let go. I’m so upset.

Taking care of yourself is the most important thing.

A person's life will pass quickly. If you live until now, you will also realize that you cannot change others at all. The only person who can change is yourself.

I don’t know how your family broke up, but the first thing you need to do is face reality, including your current psychological needs.

My husband has been gone for half a year and his phone has been turned off. It seems that he broke up with you. When a mistress sends a text message, she is negotiating terms with you. You first think about what you can grasp and what you want, and then talk about it.

The key is to let go. What has happened cannot be changed. Can you accept the breakup? If you can, try your best to get out of this relationship. If you can't, try to fight for it. But the premise is as mentioned above, take care of your current situation and mood, and understand what you want.